I’m an experienced 28 y/o domme in NE Florida who is seeking a confident service oriented sub for casual (but not low effort!) dating and play that would build up to an ongoing dynamic.

About me:

I have several years of experience with femdom, having exclusively sought out submissive men for dating and relationships since my early 20s. Aside from that, I’ve been producing femdom erotica scripts and audios for the past 5 years.

I’m currently partnered but somewhat separated due to circumstances beyond our control. That is where I put most of my romantic and sexual energy, but I’m seeking ways to supplement other wants and explore certain femdom practices.

Most people would describe me as highly independent and successful. My close ones would say I’m sexy, funny, smart, loyal, fierce, demanding, and usually shove me to the front of the group if there’s about to be an altercation. I take a lot of pride in the comfort I’m able to afford and being good at my job and I really enjoy taking the lead in most aspects of my life. I’m a very handy person who loves making all sorts of crafts and fixing up trinkets. I love films and tv, be it sci-fi or trashy reality. I’m obsessed with cats and while I don’t present as nerdy, I have always ended up being the bigger nerd in my relationships (I think that needs to be remedied).

I have a very strong academic and professional background in business and economics and I speak four languages. To balance that out, I was gifted with staggering amounts of absentmindedness and a lack of motor skills. I’m a sad and whimsical hot girl who is prone to bouts of depression and has a short attention span, so I feel it’s fitting to have a man to serve as my guide dog while I snack on something and get distracted by shiny objects.

I’ve recently been coming out of a very bad bout of illness (not contagious in any way) and sometimes get fatigued or sickly for a whole day. I unfortunately have to take lots of medication but I’ve recently been improving lots and getting back in shape. This has really limited me in the past few years and it caused me to gain lots of weight and give up on a lot of things I enjoyed, but I’m slowly starting to feel like myself again.

I’m plus sized but working towards getting back to my pre-illness shape and lifestyle, I have a beautiful doll-like face (and some would say doll-like personality if Chucky counts), hourglass figure, I’m 5’9, dark hair and eyes with fair olive skin. Very classy/glam personal style.

I like yummy food, coffee, trinkets and tchotchkes, cats, and anything I can make with my own hands. I’m always a better chef than everyone else, and that’s why I feel entitled to have men clean up after me.

What I’m seeking:

• irl/local only. I will not drive and I expect you to come to me if you’re not in the same city as me.
• A dynamic where my terms and wants are prioritized - although I’m certain you’d enjoy them too
• Something that is friendly and sexy without necessarily involving sex/intercourse on my end
• A combo of dates and play sessions
• Someone who is willing and competent to perform non sexual service within the dynamic

As for what I like to practice, I’m flexible with what I enjoy doing with different subs. While I’m a very sweet and sensible person who is mindful of each persons headspace, I’m also quite a sadist. I like getting really psychological, teasing and humiliating subs in the right moments, pulling tricks and general mindfuckery.

Some things I enjoy: - Cucking (FYI you’d be the cuck) - Domestic servitude (I want to feel like I have a nice little manservant to fulfill my whims) - Impact play (spanking, whipping, cbt, post orgasm torture but I’m also quite squeamish and won’t go into some more intense forms of play) - Edging, denial, teasing - Pussy/ass/body worship (not sure to what extent I’m willing to engage in this with new partners) - Anal play (I’m very fond of putting things in men’s asses, if the ass is worthy) - Bondage/predicaments

Things I don’t enjoy: - feminization/sissy. I might still be open to turning someone into a slut, but past encounters have really ruined this practice for me. - Anything involving permanent harm/wounds/blood/scat/etc - Objectification/fetishization of me - Presumptuous or entitled subs - Brats

What kind of person I’m seeking:

I want to find someone I can have fun with, go on dates with, and who I can rely on to fulfill my whims while I taunt and bully them. I’m not looking for a serious relationship, but I am seeking consistency and effort. I’m not interested in getting romantically involved, although I’d like someone who I am fond of and enjoy spending time with. Maybe you’re a meaty jock who is actually a good baker and wants to lavish me with cookies, or maybe you’re a maid gimp that I can shove into a closet and summon with a snap, or even a kind simpleton who is waiting for someone to roughen him up and then give him praise and headpats! I have a very flexible appreciation of people so don’t hold back in sharing about yourself and your expectations so long as you meet some basic criteria;

• 25 y/o (I am very open to older subs who are comfortable doing this and have knowledge I can benefit from)
• Well presented, hygienic, well groomed
• Preferably experienced with femdom
• I can appreciate different types of looks so I don’t think it’s worth limiting anyone by saying any physical qualities I prefer.
• Local or within reasonable driving distance. I expect to see a play partner once a week or every couple of weeks. If you can’t accommodate that, then do not reach out.

So, with all that said, send me a message with the things you think I should know about you. I’d like your first message to include age, location, and other details corresponding to my above criteria. Please also mention if you too are plagued by nightmares of the flying dog from the never ending story.

If your message is low effort or you clearly do not meet the criteria I am looking for, I will not respond. I’ve already shared lots about myself so I would expect you to send a meaningful message while keeping it concise.

Edit: if your account is blank/a throwaway, I will not respond. Nobody comes off well messaging from a blank account.