Hello everyone. Please take a moment to read this post in its entirety, as it contains a detailed picture of the dynamic I’m seeking! I’ll start off with some information about myself.

Stats: 34 years old, 6’3”, White, Blue eyes, Shaved head with short cut goatee, 245lbs, very strong but also chubby Lots of body hair. That is to say full chest, back, legs, shoulders; everywhere but my head lol. Well endowed, Married with permission.

In short, if big, furry, muscly men aren’t your thing then we probably won’t match haha.

I’m looking for a play partner for an anal only orgasm denial/control kink dynamic. I have done this in the past and it was very fulfilling, and I find myself really missing it. If you’re unfamiliar with these terms, here’s a brief description of what AO/OC entails:

Anal only sexual relationships, as the name suggests, involve sex with a receptive partner who only uses their ass (and in our case also mouth) to pleasure the dominant partner. You would forego all vaginal sex for the duration of our dynamic, only using your pussy when explicitly instructed or permitted and never as a default. Your primary, and sometimes sole, focus is on providing pleasure instead of receiving it, and you would only orgasm with permission. This is where the orgasm denial/control side of the kink comes in. While Anal Only dynamics do not require the receptive partner to give up control of their orgasms, these kinks are oftentimes paired. That is a big part of it for me, and I would require my play partner to be interested in that as well. Orgasm control meaning you do not ever decide when you cum, but must seek explicit permission for the partner in control.

If this all sounds familiar and you are well versed in this sort of play I would love to hear from you to see if we are compatible! If this is new to you but likewise exciting, please send me a message as well and we can talk about where our interests converge

While I am primarily seeking a sexual dynamic, I feel like it’s important that we are compatible as friends as well. Before doing anything I would need us to meet for a couple of “dates,” get screened for STDs, all after spending a while texting to get to know each other. I am in no rush, and value quality play partners. All activities must be discussed prior to play, and healthy boundaries must be established and respected.

It is also worth noting that my wife is not opposed to being involved, although that is not a requirement. If you enjoy serving women (or even if you would obey a command to do so) then that could be another opportunity for additional play.

Who am I interested in?

I am open to ages ranging from 21-45 or so, and any body type and race is welcome to message me. For me this is more about kink compatibility than anything else, and we can find out how we click from there!

Men, please do not respond to this message. It will just be ignored.

Thank you for taking the time to read, and I hope to hear from you soon <3