Hello π I am looking for a partner, relationship in and out of the bedroom, monogamy, looking for my life long dom to please and settle down with, and ok, maybe pamper me a bit, or ya know, a lot with cuddles. I don't mind a little distance, maybe hour at most but would prefer local and in WA as I don't drive nor can I host right now, getting ready for a move. If I am being real honest, which I always am, I am a bit exhausted from long distance, it's hard and not nearly enough cuddles as physical affection is what I thrive on. If we don't vibe over text and pics it probably won't go anywhere, I'm also bipolar, if that's not your cup of tea thank you for stopping by.
I suppose I should talk about myself a bit, some vanilla you should probably know is I should come with a warning sign that I'm loud and almost always laughing. Seriously, clients at my work don't even introduce me with my name anymore, it's always "and this is giggles" now πΉ So ya know, pro, I'll probably make you laugh or at least smile, it's pretty contagious, and well a con is I can't go to funerals, you win some you lose some π π€
I'm also laid back, I like lazy days as much as I like adventure, sweet but sassy, maybe a bit too honest, okay, fine, definitely too honest. I respect people's spaces but also looking for my dom that enjoys how physically clingy I am π€, very touchy person over here, crazy for cuddles, live for touch, open minded, high sexual appetite. If you don't want an honest answer don't ask, in return I'm an open book and won't lie, okay maybe little lies, but is it a lie if my devious and or puppy dog face gives it away?
Most of my days is split between, work, art, and games, would adore someone who doesn't mind stay in days but is also down for dragging me out of the house, or me excitedly dragging you out of the house, gotta keep a balance π€ I've been craving going out on little adventures, hikes, swimming, exploring town, learning a new hobby would be fun too π€ or teach me one of yours?
I'm trying to be more active, get in better shape, yes I am fat, fluffy, buffet bandit(that ones my favoriteπ€), however you wanna phrase it, my goal is healthy and food positive not skinny, if you want short and skinny I'm not for you, I have accepted my fate of being a ball of fluff made of chaos and giggles and will become healthy and active however that may look for me.
With that said, I am looking for my life partner to connect with and navigate through this very interesting world we live in πΉ which looks a bit like a Dom and partner who is patient, caring, open to helping me explore and shape me as a sub, humor is much appreciated, a firm hand is loved. I haven't really had a dom before, only gotten a little taste with friends, my personality is a bit different in the bedroom vs out, wouldn't mind trying a 24/7 lifestyle but that would come after later of course.
Fairly new to discovering my kinks and open to explore yours, I don't like being in control, I may have occasional bratty shenanigans but I don't have any wants to be a switch π€ decisions are hard as I tend to overthink, I have a big praise kink, degradation praises are a vibe too, big fan of free use. I've been told I'm a little but I haven't really explored that, I believe it is more of my demeanor at times. I enjoy some manhandling and possibly rough play, not so much choking but enjoy being pinned down and held by the throat, more primal, and very interested in bondage but I haven't gotten to try it, so much I haven't gotten to try really. Not into feces, urine, blood play, too heavy into pain type is not my vibe but light pain is okay, think more of the spanking realm of things.
I'm open to different body types, don't care about ethnicity, and I'm not obsessed with your height π€ I may like a guy to be taller but in my defense I'm 5β2 so it's really not hard πΉ I'm not looking for perfect, isn't a thing, but you should be able to communicate and not be easily offended.
If you have sent a DM and I haven't responded there is a good chance you weren't local, looking for a hookup, or said something that I already said no to or honestly said barely anything at all, I wrote this giant text, I expect more than a simple hey as a response y'all π not really looking for states away either. So send me something interesting, what did you like about the post? Send a pic, introduce yourself, I want to get to know you a bit before meeting so if talking is like pulling teeth I'll lose interest, not great at messaging? That's ok just be honest! I'm a lot more comfortable and open during meetups after I have chatted a bit so, feel free to DM if interested, I work graveyard so my replies might come at weird times or slow here and there just to warn you, I also tend to focus on one person at a time, I'm not a mass dater, I only have so much attention span πΉ
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