Hello! I'm a 24-year-old non-binary person based in France, and I’m seeking a submissive partner who’s ready to explore a dynamic built on trust, communication, and mutual respect. I believe that a dominant/submissive relationship is a journey that requires dedication, honesty, and an open heart. As a dominant, I enjoy taking control and guiding my partner, but my primary focus is on creating an environment where they feel safe, understood, and valued.

What I’m Looking For

I’m primarily seeking someone who resides in France or one of the neighboring countries, as proximity is important for building a meaningful connection. I prefer someone who already has some clarity about their desires, limits, and preferences in the BDSM world. While I respect beginners, I’ve found that my interests align better with those who have at least some experience or knowledge of submission. If you are unsure of what you want or are just starting to explore, I might not be the right match for you.

That being said, I am particularly drawn to individuals who are eager to grow within their submission. My ideal partner is someone who is open to being educated and guided in a way that enhances their understanding of themselves and their submissive identity. I value curiosity, self-awareness, and a willingness to communicate openly about needs, boundaries, and expectations.

What I Offer

In a dominant/submissive dynamic, I aim to establish a relationship that is mutually fulfilling and deeply satisfying. For me, dominance is not about cruelty or unchecked power—it’s about building trust, fostering vulnerability, and guiding my partner to explore their submission in a way that feels exciting and empowering.

I emphasize clear communication at every step of the journey. Before engaging in any new activity, I prioritize discussing boundaries, desires, and limits in detail. Consent is the foundation of everything I do, and I will never push someone beyond their comfort zone. My goal is to create a space where both partners can express themselves freely, without fear of judgment or misunderstanding.

My Practices

Some of the practices I enjoy include pegging, orgasm control, bondage, humiliation, anal training, denial, edging, chastity play, and impact play. Each of these activities offers unique opportunities to deepen the dominant/submissive connection, and I approach them with a focus on trust, communication, and safety.

For example, pegging and anal training are practices that require patience and clear communication to ensure comfort and enjoyment. Orgasm control, denial, and edging are tools I use to heighten intimacy and deepen the power dynamic between partners. Bondage, whether simple or intricate, is an art form that allows for creativity and exploration of trust. Impact play and humiliation can be incredibly rewarding when approached with care and understanding, as they tap into deep emotional and psychological layers.

While these are the practices I currently enjoy, I am always open to exploring new dynamics or activities that align with my partner’s interests. Mutual enjoyment is key, and I encourage my partner to share their fantasies and curiosities so we can co-create a fulfilling dynamic together.

My Limits

I have clear boundaries when it comes to certain practices: no scat, no uro, and no blood play. These are firm limits for me, as my primary focus is on creating a safe and respectful environment for both partners. I believe that boundaries are essential in any BDSM relationship, and I encourage my partner to communicate their own limits clearly.

The Importance of Communication

In my view, communication is the cornerstone of any successful BDSM dynamic. Before engaging in any activity, I take the time to have in-depth conversations about desires, limits, and expectations. This includes discussing safe words, check-ins, and aftercare preferences to ensure that both partners feel supported and understood.

I also believe that communication doesn’t stop once the dynamic is established—it’s an ongoing process. Regular check-ins allow us to reflect on what’s working, address any concerns, and explore new ideas together. Whether we’re discussing fantasies, refining boundaries, or simply sharing how we feel, open and honest communication is non-negotiable.

Why Polyamory Matters

I am polyamorous, which means that I value the freedom to build meaningful connections with multiple partners. For me, polyamory is not about replacing or diminishing the importance of any one relationship—it’s about celebrating the unique qualities of each connection. If you’re not comfortable with polyamory or are looking for a monogamous dynamic, I might not be the right match for you.

That said, I believe in transparency and respect in all my relationships. If we choose to explore a dynamic together, you can expect open communication about my other relationships and a commitment to ensuring that your needs are met.

Reaching Out

If you feel that this dynamic resonates with you and you’re excited about the possibility of exploring a dominant/submissive relationship with me, I’d love to hear from you! However, please take the time to write a thoughtful introduction. Messages like “Hey, how are you?” or “What’s up?” won’t get a response—I’m looking for someone who is genuinely interested in building a connection and willing to put in the effort.

In your message, let me know who you are, what you’re looking for, and why you think we might be a good match. Share a bit about your experience, your interests, and your boundaries, so I can get a sense of whether we’re aligned. Taking the time to write a proper introduction not only shows respect but also demonstrates your commitment to exploring this dynamic.

Final Thoughts

A dominant/submissive relationship is a partnership that requires trust, communication, and mutual respect. It’s a journey of exploration, growth, and connection, and I’m excited about the possibility of finding someone who shares my vision. Whether we’re exploring new practices, deepening our understanding of each other, or simply enjoying the unique dynamic we’ve built, my goal is to create a relationship that is both fulfilling and empowering for both of us.

If you think this could be the start of something exciting, I look forward to hearing from you. Let’s see where this journey takes us!