Hello everyone!

I’m here because I’m looking for one thing: an owner. I’ve been fascinated with submission ever since I started sex, and after several kinky relationships, including one testing the waters on this dynamic, and nonkinky relationships, I’m giving Reddit a shot to scratch that itch.

I’m a 22m, 6ft tall, 150lbs soaking wet with a very slim body type and a bubble butt, very twink if you will. A little toned from the occasional run, hike, and climbing an especially appealing trees.

I’m looking to take a little bit of control out of my life and give it to a supportive and gentle but authoritarian and hard dominant that is looking for a kink partner to incorporate kink into everyday life without overtaking it. I’ve always been a people pleaser, and I want to please one person by folding to your demands to make me your ideal femme submissive. I am male presenting in everyday life and not looking to change that in my day to day, but when I get home I want to slip into a lingerie set picked by you and become your good girl. You can call this a femboy kink, crossdressing, feminization, sissy, or whatever you’d like but the idea remains the same. Along with this, I’m of course very much into anal, always ready for you to take your daily frustrations out on with your strap-on/cock. Another super appealing part of this kink to me is total orgasm control, with you telling me how when, and if I can masturbate and cum. I love the idea of a chastity cage as well, with you holding my keys and releasing me as you see fit to do whatever you want with me. I can be a bit of a brat and I WILL beg for release at some point though… so you’ve been warned.

I’ve been into this for a while, and already have lingerie sets, some clothes, and a cage for us to start with along with a strap and several toys. I like to shave my whole body and wanna learn makeup soon as well.

Along with these kinks, a couple more rapid fire kinks are: BDSM, petplay( ), worshipping you, slave training, giving oral ( ), impact play, and some playful humiliation. Rapid fire limits: knife play, bathroom stuff, public play, and blood

I’m looking for a dom of any gender with any experience level, but you must be into aftercare and cuddling before, during, and after everything. A big part of kink for me is growing with my dom and trying out your fantasies together, so I’m very open to experimentation so long as it doesn’t go over my limits. I’m looking for someone close to my age, so the very oldest I would do is early 30s. Looking for only an ongoing dynamic and I’m not interested in hooking up just once. Exclusively looking for in person play as well so please be close to PGH! Ideally, we have a good friendship connection first. Im not looking for anything serious at first, but it’s not out of the question down the line if we click. I want a strict but kind dom, with you generally being gentle but not afraid to get rough. A good sense of humor is a big plus.

In addition to the one dom monogamist model, I would be interested in talking with couples or other people with kinks like mine that want to experiment if the couple/person is right.

Outside of kink, my 2 passions are music and tech. I play the guitar, piano, and sing with my favorite genres being jazz, folk, and classic rock, but there’s been some pop girlies doing great things this year I’ve been getting into that I would love to talk about! I’m a games enjoyer as well, with grand strategy games and RuneScape being my favorites. I’m also obsessed with video essays and have a strong love of a few movies and shows. I’m also hugely interested in history and politics with many of my favorite essays/movies being related to these.

I hope you’re still with me after this essay… send me a Reddit message telling me a little bit about yourself and we can talk for a while, exchange some pics on Snap, and make plans!