So first off I want to say what I'm looking for is long term. I want a relationship that has the element of kink mixed in. I Also want to state I'm not looking for someone that's poly. I have nothing against that lifestyle and did it a bit myself with an ex exploring her bi side. But I want just you in my life and I want you to feel the same way about me. I'm a one person woman in my life kind of person.

So a bit about my kinky side. I've been into the bdsm lifestyle over 10 years now. I've done plenty of research and asked questions over the years. I'm very versatile on how I approach my Dom side. I like to keep myself open as a Dom so that the needs and wants of my sub are being met. I can be a strict and commanding dom that will treat you like a slut, or a very gentle and firm kind of Dom that will treat you like the princess you are. It can also be a mix of both but either way I tailor my Dom side to my sub. I will say either way of how you want my Dom state to go afterwards I always provide aftercare. I like to make sure you know that you are cared for and did a good job.

As for the person I'm looking for I'm not to particular on the experience level. With newer people we can talk through stuff and see what we can find out. We can try different things to see what you think. The important thing is communication. I'm not worried about what type of sub you are because I have ways for any type. Age wise I don't have a particular age rage. I just need you to be legal and you feel like we would have something in common other then kink. Looks I don't have a specific kind type per say but I have a particular preference to women with smaller side of assets. The biggest thing will always be the personality though. Feel free to reach out to me and just see if we click. I promise I'm friendly and if things don't vibe that's cool. We will just go out separate ways.

My kinks are a bit complicated because they are so varied. Even if I have not done it, I'm very opened minded and will try anything at least once. My only hard limits are blood, scat, and anything illegal. My hard limits are to be respected, just as yours will be with me as well. Some examples of things I'm into are restraints, impact play, orgasm control, face fucking/riding, toy play, task/punishment, auralism, cock worship, rough sex, choking, lingerie, eating out, edging, discreet public play, and stocking. I don't need all these in the lifestyle but we should match in some.

A bit about me outside of kink. I like to play sports but don't always get the opportunity to. I will read when I have time as well. Cooking is a passion of mine and love to try new recipes. Finding treasures at thrift stores is always fun. This time of year I look for unique Santa's to add to my collection. If I can find someone that likes to swing dance I have fun doing that. I'm not the best but I know how and love to practice. I like to game with friends mostly on the weekend nights when nothing else is going on. Easiest way to still have a social life lol. I like to play board or video games but they do not take over my life. I am also up for any kind of adventure as well. Back when I was younger I used to ghost hunt and have fun stories about that and living in a haunted house.

Some important things to note about me is I work from home. I am also a single father to two kids that I spilt time with. We are still on good terms but life went different directions for us. My love languages are words of affirmation and physical touch as well. Also a bit of nerd for certain fandom's like Harry Potter, star wars, some anime, dc/marvel, and stuff like that. Outside of my Dom state I'm a very relaxed and easy going kind of personality. I do not yell when I get mad and will not put up with someone that yells at me. I would rather communicate and work through our issues once we are ready.