hey all, as stated I'm looking for a mommy that can deny me like I need. I've always, for as long as I was aware of the kink, been into orgasm denial and the idea of having some domme take control of my orgasms. since then, it's evolved into a whole host of kinks and fantasies that I want to share. maybe you can make it into reality for me <33

above all, what I want is a caretaker, or someone who convincingly acts like denial is what they need to do to take care of me. that it's healthy, normal, natural, and orgasms/not being needy is some unnatural state that needs to be fixed by a firm yet soft mommy. maybe ruins are the only version that's "good" for me, and only as a treat. if, coincidentally, it turns out I'm easily malleable and manipulable in that state... that has nothing to do with your rationale. you're just doing it for my own good, of course.

outside of denial (although closely related), another facet I really like is mdlg/ageplay. for me, it's highly entwined with my NSFW kinks and fantasies— I should make that very clear. there's a lot I'm potentially into, and if you have experience or interest in that realm I'd love to chat— we can do that in dms!

I have more kinks and likes and fantasies than what's said here, but that's the gist of it! for the things I don't like/want, here are my limits: toilet play, impact play, risky exhibitionism, cruel degradation, and anything illegal.

in terms of who you are as a person— I'm looking for someone who is kind, funny, naturally nurturing, and looking for every opportunity to embarrass me or make me squirm. don't be afraid to condescend to me or act like I'm too dumb to understand what you mean, I love that. also, I'm looking for someone preferably around my age, but that's not a strict limit. I've just found that the people I vibe with are closer in my age, the age itself isn't the problem. if we vibe we vibe. mainly, I'm looking for someone easy to talk to— someone I get along with in a nsfw as much as I do in sfw conversations.

please please message me if you think we'll fit! :) I look forward to hearing from you!