This is a more detailed version of a post I've made recently, If it seems familiar that's why.
As what I'm looking for is pretty hard to find on conventional dating apps, I'll try here again. I will list some trivial stuff about me and explain who and what I'm looking for.
-About me physically-
I am 6'1/185cm tall with a very lean physique. I have black wavy hair and a very light complexion. I have very dark eyes and large hands (check my profile). . I'm willing to send a selfie quite early on, I can almost guarantee you won't be disappointed. This is not to sound superficial or anything, but let's not fool ourselves, physical attraction is very important, at least initially. I take great care of myself, especially my skin and my hair. I have a large perfume collection and I tend to wear black clothes. I used to be a swimmer and nowadays I stay fit by occasionally working out. Non drinker/smoker/drug user. I've been told I have a very soothing voice but I'll let you be the judge :) One more thing I'd like to mention is that I'm not ethnically German. Despite being born here my ancestry is Mediterranean (more on that privately).
-Interests-
I'm into literature, both reading and writing. I'm also into cinema and movies in general. I'm a passionate gamer, down to play anything, although I play Fortnite and Overwatch mostly currently. I also like trading card games. Besides that I like languages and history (I speak four languages fluently).
-The dynamic/relationship I'm seeking-
Im the defintion of a soft Dom and pleasure Dom (look up softmaledom). I'm an extremely affectionate and considerate person to someone I really like. If you're not into very romantic men, I'm not your guy. I also tend to get slightly possessive. Not in a toxic but rather protective way. I get along very well with someone who seeks comfort and likes to give up control (as a result of healthily established trust). Open minded about DDLG without the age regression part. I am as monogamous as a person can be. I'm crazy enough to still believe I'll find the right lady which will eventually live a peaceful isolated life with me. I absolutely don't mind clinginess, quite the opposite. I will frequently remind you that I like you, and why I do. Im seeking a level of emotional intimacy that is hard to find in this hookup culture infested dating landscape, but I'm not giving up yet.
-Who I'm looking for-
-18 but younger than me (strong preference, sorry). I also don't mind a little age gap as long as you are comfortable with it. -Genuinely seeking the dynamic/relationship as described above, I will be able to tell quickly if someone's not legit. -I have a preference for European and Middle Eastern women. This has to do with my own heritage and I just feel more comfortable with that :). -I also think "tall" women are very attractive (around 5'7/170cm I mean). I've come to learn this is rather rare but it's just something I'm very attracted to. -In a similar time zone. Ideally in Germany and I guess that explains itself. -A great communicator. -Open to the idea of having children at some point in the future. -Someone religious (more details in private). -No emotional investment in a former partner in any capacity. This is the nuclear bomb of deal breakers for me and I'll be able to tell If that is the case.
There isn't a single preference or "requirement" I have mentioned that I don't fulfil myself. This seemingly harsh narrowing down is to not waste anyone's time :)
If I've piqued your interest please feel free to ask me anything!
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