Hello women of the internet. Longtime caller, first time listener here.

To answer the question I posed in my title... I sure think so. However everytime I seem to find someone who is compatible, mutually interested, and we seem to approach something resembling a dynamic or relationship, I find myself getting ghosted again and again.

For years, I've responded to f4m posts, filtering out who seems interesting, and enjoys the same kinky stuff that I do. I've put a lot of effort into crafting genuine responses, utilizing such hits as "hey" and "DM me" and "you are now my property bow before Lord Farquad!" and yet, nothing seems to work out.

(So help me god, if you think those are the actual responses I've sent, we probably will struggle to match on sarcasm and humor. Turn back now you sweet summer child.)

So for years, I've tried a targeted approach in one way, but here we go- new year, new me, new... you?

I'm looking for someone who is seeking both love and kink. Who wants to be owned, but also cared for. A girl who wants a gentleman in her life, but knows he can be not so gentle.

Who am I? To start, I am sane, respectful, college educated, socially well adjusted, well spoken, and bonus even house broken.

I work as a filmmaker. And if I may humbly say so, I'm doing it well- my work just got into a film festival you've probably heard of, and it's been shown in Times Square, the Vegas Sphere, and also some billboards in LA. I've been in a tank, opened the floodgates of a dam, ridden the bumper of a car going down the highway with a police escort, shared the field with sports legends, been on stage in front of thousands of people, had explosions go off all around me, and much more. I'm not Bill from accounting- I lead an awesome storied life (with all due respect to Bill, he seems swell).

I'm a total space nerd- having vowed to chase eclipses for the rest of my life, and frequently going to my roof to watch the space station pass overhead. I travel often (recently returning from New Zealand, and Australia and Japan on the horizon). I enjoy dining out, hiking, kayaking, and continuing to learn and expand my horizons.

Kinkwise, I love hypnosis. I've got a deep relaxing voice, and it has a wonderful way of turning your mind off and letting you just be mindless and obedient. CNC, impact play, choking, cock worship, bondage, orgasm control, degradation, gags, collar and leash, creampies, breeding, and much more.

I'm probably not what you dreamed of for your prince charming growing up- I shave my head and I have a biggish beard. I often find myself most compatible with girls who describe themselves as sapiosexual, but if that's not a dealbreaker for you, then I'm height/weight proportional, and have a world of love and depravity that I want to share with you.

I'm seeking monogamous, roughly 26-40, in decent shape (I don't pretend to be a model, and I don't expect you to be. I just ask for healthy or actively working to be healthy), who's looking to have an IRL relationship. I have the means to travel if you're not in NYC, provided you're willing to verify you're not a catfish and actually committed to finding a partner. Clear and regular communication is hopefully appealing to you, and chatting through the day hopefully comes naturally to you.

Very much looking forward to meeting you in the new year!