Hi, thanks for reading my post!

I’m an experienced Dom having been in several BDSM relationships and dynamics over the years, and now I’m looking someone new. Ideally I’m looking for someone who is open to something longer term, but I would also consider shorter term dynamics if the fit is right.

To be clear, I am looking for a TPE (total power exchange) dynamic/relationship. I want to mould you into exactly who I want you to be. That could be the way you dress, the way you look, personality traits, all the way through to how you behave and serve me. I’m not looking for an occasional frolic in the bedroom with some crappy restraints and a flogger. I want you to be collared whenever you’re not in public (and even sometimes then if we can hide it), I want you to actually fear being punished if you step out of line, and I want you to become trained to be naturally obedient to me without question.

My kinks range from the mild to the extreme. I enjoy wardrobe control as I think my slave should look good for me. I also enjoy pretty brutal caning; either as punishment or just for my entertainment. You will be restrained, you will be choked, you will be spanked, and you will be pushed so far that you’ll be begging me to stop in ways that you didn’t know you ever would, trying to trade any small thing you think you can offer just to get out of your current predicament.

CNC play is a big component in this for me, as is general free use. Your holes will be available to me 24/7/365 for my use as I see fit. Butt plugs will become a big part of your daily wear. I doubt you’ll ever be able to sit down comfortably or without wincing ever again from the welts and bruises on your backside.

However, given all of the above, you will also be looked after and cared for in ways you may not have expected. Despite my desire for all of the above and more, I’m actually a very calm, loving, well adjusted person who does want someone as a partner as well as a slave. I’m extremely affectionate and caring, and I will do everything in my power to make you feel safe and loved at every turn.

I’m a successful, extroverted, extremely social, well read, and very driven person. I spend most of my life in suits, but I run my own schedule the majority of the time so I can effectively do what I want.

Looks wise I’m white, 6ft, with hair and a beard, and generally I think a reasonably decent looking guy. As a point of personal preference, I am mainly interested in people who are toward the slim to slightly curvy end of the spectrum; BBW’s just aren’t for me, sorry in advance!

I understand this post might be somewhat of a quandary to some, but if you’re the sort of person who desperately wants direction, validation, and a lot of BDSM involvement, I’d love to hear from you.