This is a little different from the typical post as I’m seeking someone specific.

I know that many of the lurkers here will have ‘happy’ relationships. A perfect life with a husband or partner, a loving home, stability, everything they could need.

Well, almost everything… being truthful with yourself, if it was everything you need you wouldn’t be here. You wouldn’t be browsing these subreddits, you wouldn’t have opened my post, you wouldn’t have that deep desire burning away in you to give up some of your control.

Perhaps your partner is too ‘nice’? They love and respect you deeply, too deeply to treat you like a slut… fortunately, I have no such reservations.

I’m looking for a lady between 25 and 35, living in the UK, who takes good care of themselves and importantly, is in a relationship.

I want to learn what makes you tick, and over time teach you how your submission to me is the path to true fulfilment. I’m not seeking a relationship, I’m seeking a dynamic. It will be mainly online but I’m not completely opposed to IRL meetings at some point in the future.

About me:

I’m 35 and work a busy, professional job. My job requires me to be in complete control at all times and this echos through to other aspects of my life.

I’m 6’2, white British, short tidy brown hair, attractive. I’m in the gym a couple of times a week and make an effort to be well presented.

Kinks:

As mentioned, control is important to me and central to my kinks. Outfit control, behaviour control, masturbation control and orgasm control will be heavily enforced with appropriate punishments to keep the right partner engaged.

I also take pleasure in pushing a submissive to the edge of their comfort zone with elements of public tasks and borderline inappropriate behaviour.

Limits:

I do not enjoy toilet play, excessive pain or lasting marks, drugs, age regression or anything illegal.

If you feel that this post is a call to action for you to scratch that itch which has been bubbling away within you for so long, send me a message.

I’m only seeking one partner so please try to stand out. I’ll answer all messages initially, and if I feel there is chemistry I will ask for a SFW picture as I feel attraction is important. The picture will be reciprocated.