Greetings Human!
Disclaimer
i do have previous sexual trauma, that might come up and make it so i need a break from scenes
Introduction
My name is Ithuriel: i am a 20 yr old genderfuckery (genderqueer / fluid & amab (if that matters to you)) from germany, and in a open poly relationship with multiple people
i am a compsci student, however i would say my knowledge in most STEM topics is decent, and i always love to learn more. i enjoy going for runs, hiking through the alps (when i am in the area), and i can't dance to save my life, but i love doing it anyways. in private i enjoy reading (fantasy), playing video games (RPGs, and strategy games ofc minecraft) and working on my own computer related projects. i am 1.85m tall and 110 kg heavy (working on lowering that), i have long light brown hair and multicolored eyes (not heterochromia, where the two eyes are seperate colors, but each of my eyes is different color gradient from brown through green and blue to gray). sometimes wear glasses (more often contacts), and i tend to wear more masc clothes (button ups and suit pants) styled in a more androgynous / femme way.
What i offer
if you had me narrow it down i would say i identify as a controlling service dom (enjoy making my subs feel good and fulfilled with my control), however i am not super experienced (not inexperienced mind you, i just didn't spend 20 years already with the lifestyle (only 2 yrs of owning people) on that note i am pretty flexible with my kinks (depends on what the other person enjoys) but my limits are any type of age play (little play in a sexual context and all that) and the common sense stuff (things involving the public / people who didn't consent, or just things that pose a danger to anyone involved) broadly speaking i love pet or slave/pet dynamics where i am the clear superior and my word is law ofc that also means i love taking care of my pets and praising them letting them know they are the most special slaves in the world I also have a sadistic side, tho i prefer to tie that into the control side of things (just spanking someone for the sake of it is fun, but not really fulfilling to me)
What i am looking for
Well mostly someone to match my brainworms, but more specifically someone in my age bracket (so 18-25) who enjoys giving up control. Most of my kinks center around that aspect, so if you aren't willing or able to let somebody tell you how you can orgasm, what clothes you'll wear, or what to do, i am probably not the right dom for you. Of course i don't expect you to be willing to do that right away, i firmly believe that trust should be earned, and that this type of dynamic requires lots of trust. Besides that a high sex drive, or being easily turned on would be beneficial, since i am definitely on the high end when it comes to sex drive. And most important of all: i am not just looking for a cum and run, i want to be able to talk to you outside of scenes and play with you repeatedly, since the interpersonal aspect is really important to me.
Summary
Kinks
- Control, control, control!
- sadism (keeping it this broad cause as long as its not super dangerous, but painful, i am probably into it)
- Rules & Tasks
- bondage
- chastity
- open to explore and learn ;)
Limits
- age play (little play in a sexual context and all that)
- common sense stuff (things involving the public / people who didn't consent, or just things that pose a danger to anyone involved)
Ideas for your message
- What are your hobbies?
- What is a unique thing about your body?
- What is smth you achieved you are proud of?
- What is your previous experience with kink?
- Do you know of specific thing you enjoy a lot in kink?
- What are you expecting to get out of a dynamic?
- What time zone are you in?
Subreddit
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- 3 days ago
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