Ok it’s a little late, but it’s too deliciously cheesy of a line not to use and I would never be so pedantic as to let a little detail ruin something fun. If you end up wanting to message me, think you can think of a cheesier reply?

About Me

I’m 35 and live in the Bay Area though I have lived all over the US and also abroad for several years and may move in the future. I work as a transactional lawyer for a big law firm. I love history, reading, good stories, cooking and finding new recipes or new hole in the wall restaurants, fun games, parties, traveling, sports, and so much more. I think it’s important to live life to the fullest as this is the only life we get. So that’s why I’m here. That is why I am Looking for you. For the life I want. But damn if I don’t find it hard sometimes.

Relationship Desires

I’ve heard Love is a soul ‘s recognition of its counterpoint in another (get the reference?)…. Do I believe it? No. But it’s romantic and beautiful so I would like to. I’m looking for my counterpoint, my everything. Someone who appreciates and complements my attitude and nature. Keywords that may be helpful would include someone intelligent, romantic, passionate, affectionate, caring, fun, successful, attractive.

I want romantic getaways, someone to binge watch new shows with, argue about books and favorite characters, cook dinner with, cuddle with at night, decorate a Christmas tree together… or decorate you for Christmas.

Kinky stuff

So I don’t like discussing before I know someone. But physical touch is my love language. Holding hands, massages, and making out for hours are all part of what I want. I enjoy control but want a strong partner. I could write pages of my dreamy kinky partnership and all the ideas I have making a Tuesday fun or taking our relationship global. But I’ll keep that secret for now, don’t want people taking my ideas.

If this speaks to you. If you think you are my soul’s counterpart, then take the first step and message me, telling me about you. Please put the amount of effort that is indicative of your interest in a dream partnership.