Hello from the beautiful Thousand Islands region! If you’re looking for a Partner, Best Friend, Lover, and Daddy (not necessarily in that order), I may be able to help!

I am 41, and I’m a retired combat veteran. In my retirement, I’m a certified Mindfulness and Meditation teacher, and I like to be creative with music, visual art, and writing. I also enjoy gaming (tabletop and video) – I play primarily RPGs, Strategies, and other non-competitive games and spontaneously hopping in the car and going somewhere (generally for a bite to eat or to one of many lake/river/beach/park spots around here during the warmer months)

I’m debt-free, smoke-free, and child-free (sterile, surgery). I work from home and try to live as much of a liquid, go-with-the-flow, in-the-present life as I can. I’m low drama, but attentive. I am thoughtful, considerate, passionate, reciprocal, available, and experienced.

I try not to take anything for granted, from the beauty (and balance) of the environment to the effort people put in when trying to be brave/vulnerable. I do not judge people for having painful experiences and learning to overcome (or make peace with) them. I have been doing that myself for many years, so I just happen to have more practice than most. I do not expect perfection and am not one to give up easily.

I want to provide a safe space for you to be your authentic self. I am big on communication, and I want to ensure you always feel comfortable coming to me. I want you to climb in my lap when you need to cry when you just need to breathe and re-center, and when you need Special Time. I am looking for someone who wants me to be the center of their world (and vice versa), who wants to talk lots throughout the day and do things together sfw and nsfw. I am also looking for someone comfortable being together if we’re doing separate things. For example, I could be playing a game, and you are coloring, but we’re happy to be on the couch together.

I enjoy being a Mentor, Cheerleader, Soundingboard, Space Heater, Shopping Partner, Driver, DJ, and more. I’m someone who is organically giving in and out of the bedroom.

In terms of NSFW/Kink things, I’d prefer someone who loves being frequently filled and loves cock warming worshipping. Things in addition to that I’d be happy to discuss. I’m also a fan of random affection, as in I come up behind you and give you neck kisses and touches when you’re cooking something just as a way to say Hi.

So, if you’re looking for a softer Daddy, someone who is devoted, loyal, and wants to build a long-term, monogamous relationship, and my post sounded appealing, please don’t be afraid to write. Let me know what inspired you!