That's who I'm looking for someone funny, who's weird, but in a good headspace. I love positivity, especially if it means you'll agree to get kinky with it. I mean we only live once, lets put some miles on these bodies before we die.
I'm looking someone whom their first words to you aren't I won't do that or no. I'm not saying no limits, I'm not crazy, but maybe keep an open mind or be open to trying things that are outside your normal comfort zone. Expand your horizons you know?
Luckily I have met people who were open minded, who were adventurous. Just because your kinky, or enjoy sex doesn't mean we open with that or wholly focus on that alone. How about we talk, and get to know each other spend some time learning about one another. Because I want a friend, a companion, and a partner.
Lately meeting people has been hard, sometimes it's been hit or miss, it's all been miss as of late. I'm sure that has to do with me but you have to keep trying, you stay persistent, you keep working at it because when you find someone amazing and everything clicks it is fucking magical, and I want that again, we all deserve that.
So I'm not quitting until I get that, so that having been said allow me to get into who I am, and what I want to explore.
So about my experience as a Dominant I was taught by my first gf when I was younger. I believe this has made me more empathic in regards to the well being and health of my slaves. I had no clue what I was doing but she showed me, and I learned. After that ended I decided to continue to explore it. What I've learned is that this dynamic can be a beautiful, and emotionally fulfilling experience.
You can have meaningful and intense sexual dynamics, and mutually encouraging and supportive experiences, they are not mutually exclusive. But they do take work, from both sides, you can't half ass a dynamic, both parties need to put in the work.
So that is a little about me, what I believe, and how I approach things. These are my kinks, you don't have to like them all but I hope you are open minded enough to try them, that is my hope at least.
Orgasm control
Private/public play
Toys
Orgasm denial
Wardrobe control
Begging
Body writing
Pictures
Free use
Pain play
Impact play
And more. I know I'm fairly kinky, but I believe I am just being more honest and upfront about kinks. A lot of people try underhanded shit and try to manipulate you into certain types of play, I'm just being honest and upfront with you because it's the best approach.
So in closing, if you are looking for someone intelligent, nerdy, funny, and sexy, message me I'd love to speak with you and to get to know you better. Regardless of whether I hear from you or not I hope you find what you are looking for, we all deserve our happiness. Thank you for your time.
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