Why a switch? I'll tell you a in a little bit.

But before we get started, you should know what I look like!

Faceless pic here

And when I say casual, I don't mean a flaky, here and there type of situation. I say casual as in it won't be a full time dynamic. I know when my schedule allows for play but I will want to work that out with your schedule first. I am looking for mutual enjoyment and being with good company rather than a committed relationship. I just want you to be aware of what you're getting into when you message me.

Who am I looking for?

• Physically: just don't be obese but I have a preference towards slim and curvy women.

• Be communicative and eager to explore

That's it. I've learned over the years that you don't need much to start an online dynamic. The important factors are the quality of the communication between us and having physical attraction. Just be yourself around me, the sillier the better. I love genuine personalities.

Who am I?

I'm Nolan, 27 years old from Canada. I've been into bdsm for years, around 10 years now. Though it's only the last few years that I've really started to understand how kink and me co-exist. I'm naturally someone who takes initiative and control of my life. As I progress in my career, I see how I like to manage my younger co-workers and how I speak up and against management when it's appropriate.

So it's no surprise I'm dominant, though my submissive side was an interesting revelation. That's why I am looking for a woman who's a switch that leans more submissive. I will be your Dominant all the time but there are times when I will need you to switch. I imagine the switching will occur naturally when it is right so all I need is you to be open to it.

Wait, what about the kinky stuff?

I didn't forget actually, I don't find listing all your kinks goes anywhere. Usually people don't even recall the post and ask again anyways haha. But I will mention the baseline kinks I feel are necessary:

• Rules, tasks, protocol
• Orgasm control and denial
• Humiliation
• Wardrobe control
• Teasing, objectification

As for experience, looking for switches inherently invites those that are a bit more experienced. After all, you don't typically start exploring kink by doing both Dom and sub roles!

I also encourage dominant women who have ever thought about their submission to reach out, I'm sure we can have some fun.

Now what?

If anything caught your attention from this post, let's connect and have a chat. See if we're compatible.

Looking forward to meeting some of you.

If this post didn't resonate with you and yet you read all the way here, best of luck to you as well!