Hello! I hope you're able to read this all the way through, but as a summary, I'm looking for a gentle and loving Domme with a drive and curiosity for exploration and experimentation that I can serve, follow, respect, and cherish. I'm looking for a deep and meaningful connection with a wonderful human being; I'm not looking for, or to be, a "kink dispenser".

Before getting into a bit about me, I'd like to mention some possible dealbreakers in case they matter for you. I'm politically in line with Democratic Socialism and folks like AOC and Bernie Sanders. I'm spiritually an Agnostic-Atheist. I am and have been non-hierarchically polyamorous for over 7 years and have been happily married to my best friend for just as long. I'm non-binary (they/she/he are all great), almost entirely gynesexual, and entirely gyneromantic. I live in Kitsap County (though happy to travel), which is closest to Seattle (East of me) as the crow flies and Tacoma (South of me) as the car drives. In case of allergies, I have two cats and a dog (all very cute).

For some bits about me, I'm forever curious about the world around me and the universe at large. I love to learn, teach, share, theorize, and wonder, especially together with friends and loved ones. Of all my favored leisure and escape activities, I'm most fond of playing video games; Adventure and RPGs in particular. I'm very interested in finding a partner to play all kinds of video games with and go on many grand and wonderful adventures. I also enjoy board games, card games, and table top games; all the games! Other favored activities include curling up with a good (or hilariously bad) movie or TV show, reading, camping, hiking, building wooden models, and trying my hand at crafts like carving. Work wise I'm a seasoned software developer and work full time from home.

As for what I'm looking for, I'm first and foremost looking for someone to fall deeply and madly in love with that, in addition to our dynamic honorifics, I can someday call my best friend, lover, and partner. All relationships take mutual hard work, and I'm looking for someone who understands that; someone who challenges, supports, builds, and lifts me up with as much devotion as I show them. I'm looking for someone who understands her own desires, wants, and needs at their most basic levels. You by no means need to "have it all figured out", I don't think anyone has that, but I am looking for someone who can meet me in active and vulnerable communication to build the aforementioned relationship and address the normal lemons life hands us along the way.

I express my love, gratitude, and appreciation for my partner through acts of service. As such, I naturally gravitate towards support roles and feel most fulfilled caring for my partner's domestic, physical (sexual and non), intellectual, and emotional needs. Servitude isn't just a kink for me, it's something I willingly choose to do everyday to show how much my partner means to me and how important and valid their wellbeing, happiness, emotions, and needs are. How I feel most loved and appreciated in return is through praise, encouragement, and physical touch (sexual and non). In a relationship dynamic, I resonate most strongly with gentle, firm, and loving Domme and Mommy types who are always kind to me emotionally and physically, and often playfully mean to me sexually. I equally resonate with those who make me feel safe; who I can trust to carefully push my boundaries and be there for me when they're pushed too far. As I strive to create and hold a safe space for you to exist and thrive, I too desire this from you.

On the sexy side I have a lot of personal interests and desires, but I'll skip the painful list and just highlight some of the major ones. On the gentler side, I love erotic snuggles and cuddles, being called your "good boy" or "good girl" when giving/receiving pleasure or doing domestic tasks well, and generally being encouraged, appreciated, and complimented in adorably lewd ways that make me blush on the outside and beam on the inside. On the "meaner" side, I love exploring light humiliation and control. I've had a lot of very positive experiences with cuckolding and it's something I enjoy sharing with partners. I also have a little bit of experience with edging, denial, and chastity and I'd love to explore it more. Beyond that, I very much enjoy the pleasures of the mind such as "sexting", roleplaying, and sharing fantasies and naughty media. Finally, in regards to limits, the obvious illegal ones apply, as does scat, abandonment, non-consensual abuse, anything feet related, and sissification.

And that about does it! I'm eager to hear from you if you think we'd match. Take care!