I'd be lying if I didn't admit that just writing out that title got me a little bit wet - so I'll just admit (between us) that I'm now thoroughly aroused while writing the rest of this ad.
Hi! I'm Summer - I just moved to the bay area for my first 'real' job - sorry but unpaid internships don't count, and I'm hoping to also find someone - well a Dom/Domme - who can hopefully be not just a partner, but a dominant that will both teach and train me into the slave I've come to accept that I want to be.
A bit about SFW me - I'm 5'2, ~120 lbs, Asian/white, dark hair that ends about halfway down my back. I just got my first job working in tech, and I'm definitely a bit of a beginner here (so would love to maybe also get some code review - and maybe some tasks around how well I do...) I've grown up skiing and hiking, I would hope I can share these with my partner. I'm a pretty damn good cook, and my guilty pleasure TV show is cheesy SciFi like Babylon 5 😅.
I absolutely love to travel the world, it's where I invest my time and money and I would hope you do the same. Really when it comes down to it, new experiences will always get my jam.
NOW FOR SPICY ME - While I've had some flings involving kink, all of my past long term relationships have been pretty vanilla, and while I tried to incorporate kink, you can only tell someone to pull your hair harder so many times before you realize they're just not that into it. SO this time we're going the other way around.
I'm really hoping to be a hopefully well treated little slave for a Dominant that's local to SF (Or I can get to you within an hour on BART/Caltrain/Driving). This extends to both in the bedroom completely, and eventually out of the bedroom as well. While I don't think COMPLETE TPE is reasonable/achievable, I do want to heavily incorporate power exchange into whatever dynamic we create.
Specific kinks that I know I need to be satisfied are: bondage, orgasm control/long term denial, chastity, medium pain, anal, plugs, humiliation, cumplay, watersports, discreet public play, and heavy power exchange.
My known limits are: scat, blood, body fluids not mentioned, body modification (we both have to agree), nothing that will genuinely ruin me/my career.
Id also heavily prefer a monogamous partner. I realize that can be tough so it's not a limit, but I am truly hoping to build a relationship with this dynamic as well.
Hope to hear from you all, and please tell me what your favorite animal is at the top of your message so I know you read this all the way down here.
xoxoxo
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