I'm looking for someone to connect with, someone who might be experienced or possibly new to BDSM. Someone who wants a firm but caring and understanding Dom. Someone who is looking for a Dom interested in their goals and life as a person but also desires to be used..to be able to turn their minds off and experience pleasure.

About me: I have experience in both on-line and in-person dynamics. I tend to only want to have one active Submissive dynamic going at a time to be able to give you time and focus.

I'm pleasure oriented so I enjoy giving you pleasure in the tasks and activities we do together. I enjoy things like sensory play, edging, orgasm control, word play, building scenes together, free use, power exchange, tasks (domestic oriented/life oriented and sexual), exhibitionism, forced play, bondage and light pain and humiliation. I like when we can play but also develop a good connection that leads to deeper levels of play as trust builds.

I like to make sure we talk up front about boundaries, safety and negotiation of play so everyone feels safe and can have fun.

About you: Someone who is active but can set aside time to devote to this. We can negotiate what that means from daily tasks and talking to something more segmented and set aside for times we play together. Someone who would be willing to try new things and push themselves within reason.

A bit more about me: I'm an active professional in a humanities career, I love to cook, be outdoors when it's warmer, paint, read, play games and play basketball. I have a lot of interests and love learning new things.

I'm 6'1, trimmed beard with glasses and a nice smile. I have an active build and I've been told I have a nice smile and a fantastic butt and nice legs. I'll be ok swapping SFW pics up front because I want attraction to be part of the sexual dynamic as well.

I really look forward to meeting you! Local would be amazing but open to a more long distance connection if it's right too!