Hi hi! I'll start this off by saying that I'm not a submissive - I don't want to obey you, I don't want to be given rules, and I sure as hell don't want to be punished if I've done something "wrong." I do, however, dabble within some things within the BDSM sphere. (More listed below.)

I'm looking for a man between the ages of 25-32 who is not into degradation and wants to work on building something monogamous and real with someone. I'm talkative, and phone calls are required as I don't just want to get to know you via text.

I cannot emphasize this enough - I'm NOT into the abusive, demeaning, humiliating side of BDSM. I like to be loved, cherished, doted on, and praised, and I return this affection, time, effort and appreciation to my partner.

Appearances wise, I have green eyes, red hair, and beautifully porcelain-fair skin. I consider myself to be very pretty, and I am willing to exchange SFW selfies early on. I never send nude pictures.

I'm looking for something stable and long term or slightly long term. I'm an adult, and not a coward, so I won't ghost you.

I am not super kinky; I tend to be too vanilla for kinky people, and too kinky for vanilla people. I'm not promiscuous. I have far more limits than kinks, so it would be better and easier to say what I AM into: -Praise kink, praise kink, praise kink - Rope bunny - Slight masochism ("thuddy" impact play, clamps and some others) -Funishments - Occasional overstimulation - Sensory deprivation (earplugs, blindfolds, but not gags) -Monogamy only; OH and I have all of the colorful, soft, unique and pretty sex toys a feminine woman could ever ask for.

As for the personality side of things, I LOVE talking, I'm very passionate and fun. I'm incredibly feminine. I love artsy things, male modern country music, and Taylor Swift is a major obsession and love of mine. I'm well-spoken, articulate, intelligent and I type properly. (Speaking of which, you're an adult. Please know the difference between "your" and "you're.) I view myself as both hilarious and entertaining. I love swimming, sewing, adult coloring (with smaller spaces and more details) and shopping. I'm pro-choice (please do not talk to me if you're not.) Allow me to make myself very clear - if you against Israel defending themselves, please do not message me, as I don't have tolerance for anti-Semitists or people who are blind to the reality of what Islamic people do to their people and women when their religion is law. I don't smoke, do drugs, or sleep around. I hardly ever drink. I'm a resident night owl. If you're a night owl, this is a huge, huge bonus as so many people work morning hours and aren't available to talk at night. (This isn't required, however.)

I can get along well with different types of people, although on this subreddit in particular I have a difficult time finding someone who is "tame" enough for me. But alas, here I am. If you do decide to reach out, please mention your age, location, what you're looking for, a description of your appearance, and any fun thing(s) you want me to know about you!