I’m looking for someone where the connection is unforced and conversations come naturally. I hope to find someone who doesn't just want a D/s relationship but a close connection beyond that. I am perfectly happy starting and continuing online, as I have had very successful online relationships with a D/s dynamic and a lot of what I look for works very well online. I’m welcoming if you’re fairly new to kink, and aren’t sure what’s the next step. Good communication is key in these relationships so I want someone who is able to communicate often and openly, ideally where we can keep each other company during the day.

My specialty, if you can call it that, is mentoring girls who others would suspect would never be into this. You don’t openly look for this. Tell me if this speaks to you: you’re looking for a safe, secure private arrangement to be taught. Maybe you’ve done a lot of vanilla play but want to get wilder. Maybe you haven’t found the right fit for your fantasies. You’re not looking for love, but want a man who is dependable, emotionally available, who you might eventually bare your soul to, trust with your darkest secrets, and at the same time, like to get into a deep exploration of our deeper instincts.

I am very much into helping you to explore the boundaries of being consensually used so you may express yourself fully. We can start with mild exercises and escalate to the full-on depravity, where you can’t believe what you’re doing for me as you comply and do as you’re told - and yet, it feels so right. I can be disciplinary with a firm hand, and hold you accountable for goals. I will ensure that all three of your holes get the use you crave. And plenty of hugs and aftercare checking in on you to see how you’re feeling.

Outfits/lingerie, restrains/cuffs, blindfolds, cnc, edging, forced orgasms, repeated orgasms, ruined orgasms, sensory deprivation, voyeurism, temperature play, exhibitionism, degradation/praise are some of the kinks I enjoy.

If you recognize yourself in this, want this or just want to make some small talk: send me a message. Since physical appearance is important to me, prepare to verify early on. Of course, I’ll return the favor.