Hello all,

I am looking to get back into the game and re-hone my dom skills after getting out of an LTR about half a year ago. I'm not necessarily looking for a committed relationship again, but I do value a strong connection with my partners. I like getting to know them, as it makes knowing what buttons to push much more enjoyable.

About me:

I am a 27/yo graduate student living in the PNW pursuing a degree in clinical mental health counseling. I like to think I have a nice balance- I enjoy going out to explore the city around me and meet new people, but I also appreciate relaxed nights in.

I have a lot of interests and enjoy learning new information and skills. These days between work and school I mostly play video games, read, spend time outside, cook (a lot- I'm a big foodie), and read and write. When I have the time and energy I enjoy leading an active lifestyle, so bonus points if you want to go to the gym or hike or walk with me. I definitely tend to be a caregiver/caretaker, and enjoy looking after the needs of people I care about and feel close to.

Physically speaking, I am 6 feet tall with dark brown hair and brown eyes. I wear glasses and have a dark beard. Currently rocking a bit of a dad bod since work and school don't always allow for a consistent gym schedule unless I get up at 4 am, but I am relatively height / weight proportional.

Non-Vanilla Stuff:

I can be pretty flexible because I prioritize the pleasure of my partners, but the kinks I am most interested in are the following: bondage, light impact play, orgasm denial / control, edging, (giving) praise, and more. This is a conversation between us and I am always open to discussing boundaries and limits.

I do have some hard lines, and that includes blood, scat, heavy impact play, violence, anything illegal. The usual hard no's.

If you think we would be a good match I would love to chat with you! I am open to sharing de-identified pictures first and if we decide to go further we can share more. I hope to hear from you soon.