Thank you very much for taking the time to click this post, and hopefully reading all that is too it! I hope you are having an amazing time, and maybe, as this year comes to an end, who knows if you might be looking at a new life-changing acquaintance.

I'm a 37 year old man, relatively well educated, confident and last but not least, naturally dominant, looking to find a like minded, though submissive, amazing female counterpart to connect with. Building a connection in which we would grow together, and explore our relation would be ideal. After all, trust and familiarity are both key in any relation where BDSM has any role to play, no matter if the role is large or small.

I prefer open and honest communication, and you would much rather find me being brutally honest, than ghosting as a way to take the "easy way out", and i would hope to find a partner who also values openness and honesty.

As for communication, I would hope that your initial message contains more than just a single word, telling me a bit about yourself, and also why you found this post interesting, if you did. Don't hesitate if you end up reading this and wanting to reach out, I am open to all ages and locations, though how things develop will of course be affected by factors such as those.

About me

I think of myself as an attractive, healthy and relatively fit man, running a few times a week to stay in shape. I'm 193cm (those of you who use imperial will just have to look up what that means, or simply believe me when I tell you I am relatively tall), Dark hair, grey/green eyes and a face that is sometimes cleanly shaven and sometimes sports some sort of beard, right now I am actually rocking a mustache, giving just a hint of that 80s German porn-actor vibe, lol. 
I have a somewhat nerdy side and I am naturally dominant in most settings I am in, both personal and professional. That does not mean I am constantly trying to make others submit, but if no one else will take charge, it comes naturally to me, to make sure things are done, and that everyone knows their role in a given setting. 

I enjoy board games, history, film, music and outdoor activities such as hiking and camping.

kink wise: Sexually I am 100% dominant, i do not have any part of a switch in me, at least not one that has shown itself these last 37 years. Outside the bedroom, I do enjoy D/s dynamics to continue, but in what shape or form, is always a discussion and a unique situation in any relation, ranging from just mild protocol, to full on ownership/TPE. I have been around the scene and lifestyle for quite some time so I definitely have some experience, and as I said previously: I really do value openness and honesty, so feel free to ask away if you have any specific questions, doubts or curiosities.

Some of my favorite kinks, but none of the "must-haves" include: 
Ownership, kinky/slutty outfits, mental dominance, submission, obedience, anal, piss, humiliation, degradation (and praise), spit, cum, deepthroat, face fuck, slaps, spanking, training, rules, generally rough and humiliating "pornlike" sex, cock/balls/cum worship, orgasm control, toys, and lots more.

I am open to starting out the conversation here on Reddit, but at some point I hope we could move to a platform actually created for communication. 

Until then, I hope you are all well, and I really do look forward to hearing from, and replying to your message!

Much love
M