I've been into BDSM for about 8 years now, and I lay heavily on the side of being a Dom. It started out how it normally starts with Horny teenagers who have made most of the common mistakes already. I value communication above pretty much anything in a relationship because of it. Would love to be able to talk about anything and everything without either one of us feeling embarrassed, guilty, or fearful.
Dynamic/Kink Wise. I heavily love catering to my partner. I love being a Master, Being a Dom, Sadistic or understanding, Stern or caring. I love the aspect of control and trust, and really few things get me off physically or satisfy me emotionally in a relationship other than control and trust. Love language is Physical, and as such just about every kind I can get my hands on you, sexual or not(Lots of hand-holding). Light to medium Bondage/Restrictive play(Handcuffs, rope bunny, sensory deprivation), Degradation, Humiliation, exhibitionism, Free use, CNC, roleplay, forced orgasms, orgasm control. I am happy to be a taker if you just want to be a giver. Happy to guide, or go with the flow.
Physically, I am 6'2, 162LB, As white as white can be, with Brown hair of medium length, I recently took up running/Jogging, and I'm pretty physically fit and working on getting fitter. Been working on my looks and physicality, for over a year now and don't plan on stopping. I want to be the healthiest I can be, I fully plan to be alive to see the turn of the century. I'd prefer if my partner at least had the same goals as me to be on this planet as long as livingly possible and I am doing everything in my power to hit that goal. I have a mild Glasses kink. Regardless of the dynamic, I would love for you to have your own life and live it, so I can happily be a part of it.
Likes outside of the dynamic, I read a lot. I have probably spent more time reading in the last year than anything else, and it's not even close. I occasionally play games on PC, everything from Competitive shooters, to chill and relaxing games like Stardew, Minecraft, and whatever floats my boat at the time. I am very competitive when it comes to the ranked scenes in competitive games. But can easily enjoy casual gameplay. Like I said above, I have picked up running mostly to work on Cardio significantly more. I try to go every weekend, and sometimes on weekdays, I am a tall white guy, so I have no fear running at 2 am, especially after it rains. Pure bliss. I don't drink, or smoke, or anything like that, never been drunk. Glad to be the designated driver for you and your friends.
Work-wise, I make well above average money doing I.T work for a smaller company, Specifically System Administrator if you know what that entails.
AMA, I do not mind, as long as it is mine to tell, I don't mind answering. Will happily share a photo of myself in the first few messages. I am not shy.
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