Hello! This ad might be a little bit long but stick with me or just read the tldr!

TL;DR I'm a dynamic Dom who loves to make my partner reach their full potential whether it's in day to day life or in the bedroom. Looking for a sub who is wanting to enjoy the romance and care of a regular relationship with all the pleasures of a kinky bedroom.

Ultimately I'd describe myself as a gentleman in the streets, Dom in the sheets.

About me.

Physically - I'm 25, monogamous, white, 5'10 slim build, non-smoker, hygienic. Will share pics.

Personality - A weird mixing pot of romance, lots of humour, kinky naughtiness, heaps of sentimentality and a libido through the roof. I'm always trying to make people laugh and I help out where I can but would much rather focus all that attention on one deserving person! I'd consider myself intelligent or at least have a good amount of common sense but please don't judge me when I make a fool of myself! I try to do things the right way, bettering myself where I can and taking control for others when needed. Ultimately, I can be serious when necessary so I'm not always goofing, but I would much rather have a laugh and try and enjoy life!

I have some other qualities/principles I pride myself on such as being caring, having honest and clear communication, being loyal and supportive through the tough times and celebrating your good times and achievements. There is plenty more for you to discover but we'll have nothing left to talk about if I keep yapping. Unfortunately you will have to put up with my awful awful humour.

Interests - I love both fun adventures and the home comforts too. I'm a big fan of road trips visiting new places, simple night drives just vibing to playlists or... preparing a cosy film night with the best snacks. I enjoy cafe hopping, city trips, discovering museums and the one I do most often is HIKING! I am a bit of a gamer but also go to the gym a few times a week. I'm loving BBQing and DIY/landscaping (I've entered my dad era early) and trying my hand at some more practical hobbies like leather work (No I haven't made a whip or paddle (yet?)). I always love to hear other people's interests, passions and hobbies, so I'm always learning and would love to hear yours. In terms of music, I love rock, 80s, indie, anything upbeat or cheesy too. Films and TVs , god knows, a bit of everything really, but I tend to rewatch Lord of the Rings a few times every year so that might be a favourite to go off of!

I'd also love to travel more but I know for a fact that I'd prefer to be with someone who I can make memories with and look back in a few years and reminisce!

Daily life - I'm a data engineer based in the North East UK saving for a nice house deposit. Weekdays consist of work, film nights, socialising through games and the occasional walk or night drive. Weekends are full of walks, hosting BBQs or doing any outstanding DIY but would much rather be with my partner having fun, making memories or having long kinky sessions!

Who and what I'm looking for.

Damn, a completely loving, trusting and thoroughly happy relationship that everyone is jealous of? Where do I sign up?

I'm looking for someone who considers herself ambitious or passionate (whether it's your relationship/partner, career or interests) - but perhaps also wants to give up control and lean on me for their relief. Someone who desires to be with a trusted partner that will act in her best interests, support her through the tough times and celebrate her successes. I'm not necessarily looking for a 24/7 d/s dynamic where I control everything, in fact I'd be happy with a vanilla one just with a fun bedroom! I'm a big romantic and just want to take someone on dates, learn what little gifts you love, give you my hoodies, and much more.

Location - I'm based in the North East of the UK. I don't mind travelling/relocating as the right person will no doubt be worth it.

The kinky stuff.

I'd prefer to use this as a talking point in getting to know each others kinks, limits, what makes each other feel good, what turns you on, your weak spots and so much more but this is a BDSM page so...

I can be either a soft or hard Dom as I'm into all kinds of dynamics as long as you're under me ;). Everything I do though, even as a Dom, as rough or selfish as you may want me to be is to make you cum hard so you're left satisfied! I'm always open to trying new kinks and living out your fantasies as crazy as they may be.

My hard limits - Drugs, permanent damage, anything poly/sharing and the obvious illegal

My kinks (none of these are required or necessary) - BDSM, petplay, bondage, moaning, orgasm control/edging, freeuse, teasing, rough(choking, spanking etc), spit/drool, praise/degradation and plenty of gentle ones! Let's discuss! Your pleasure is mine!

And that... Is that.