I want to preface by saying that there's no right or wrong way to kink. You are allowed to have any dynamic you seek but if you write me, I expect you to adhere to my philosophy which I find rather self evident but I will clarify below so there's no confusion.

Submission means you defer to the dominant. You conform. You comply. You follow. You obey. You accomodate. You acquiesce. And you do so because it makes you happy. It imbues you with purpose. It fulfills you. Please read that again. And again and again until you understand.

You are always welcome, even couraged, to voice your wants. I will acknowledge it but I may not act on it. Not because I am a tease (well, maybe a little ok maybe more than a little) but because it's one way I exercise dominance. I have something you want and I withhold it from you. Power. I want it and you want to cede it.

If you ghost when I don't give you what you want, you are not submissive.

Seems very self evident to me but I am finding very few (read no) women who share my sentiments. It's ok if you don't subscribe to my perspective. I am not for you and I hope you find the one for you. Just please don't write me. If you're still unclear, I am happy to discuss.

Domination is work. I have taken kinbaku lessons in Tokyo. I have studied safety protocols. I have collected a wide array of toys. I have items in my Lowe's cart to build toys. I craft immensely creative and elaborate predicaments. There is only one pleasure greater than giving you the illusion of power before reality hits you. I excel in foreplay and practice aftercare. I have 15 years of experience. I will dom you when I want.

You should really really really love orgasms. Your love for them is only surpassed by your desire to please me. You should crave feeling helpless and enjoy struggling in bondage. You should enjoy being dressed. I have fashion designs I want to bring to life. This will involve covert public bondage. More than the physical, you should revel in the mental. After all, this is about power exchange.

While all of this may sound intense and it definitely can be, my style lean affectionate and doting. I will do unspeakable things to you then I will very tenderly put you back together. I will tell you how good of a girl you are and how proud and happy and lucky I am. I will treasure you, praise you, spoil you, adore you, love you. I only want the best for you and I consider it my duty to ensure your well being.

I am single and monogamous. I do not want kids ever. You should be childfree in every sense. I crave control and I do not want your energy split. I don't want to get married but I am willing to discuss this. I believe in science and strongly despise religion. I value many many things with humanity and imagination at the top of the list. This means free Palestine, BLM, decrim, acab. I am ridiculously playful. Almost always I do not act my age. I make stupid jokes and will tease you endlessly. That said, I know how and when to adult. I work on my cars and house. I manage my portfolio and have a credit score over 800. My life is in pristine order.

You are probably in a similar spot in life. Ideally, we would make a power couple. That said, I am open to anyone as long as you are working towards something. For example, I would be delighted to finance your next record or tour. I am attracted to intelligent, accomplished women who have things to say and stuff to do. You talk constantly. Whatever is on your mind, you vocalize. If I want you to stop, I have ball/ring/penis gag, your panties, or my handkerchief.

I am seeking local but will consider someone further if you can travel frequently. I will want to move to_discord very quickly.