Hello, I hope you have had a happy holidays! This is a longer post describing what I am looking for and what I can and will provide. It is a long post, happy reading!

About me:

Throughout the twists and turns of the 31 years of my International life, I have developed into a mature, confident professional man, with an exciting creative job in the music and entertainment industry. In my ample amount of free time, you can find me in a quiet bar or café with a cup of coffee or red wine, nose deep in a good book. Bettering myself through reading, exercise, and experience is a core part of my life.

My sexual and intimate life, has revolved around clear Dom/sub roles for most of the last decade. I have had several online and in person relationships of varying lengths where the clear definition of the dom and sub roles where core to the intimacy that we developed. Throughout these experiences I have come to the realisation that I am very well suited for the master role. Care, trust, communication, and control are the core tenants that I keep going back to time and again.

shape of our dynamic/what I can give:

At the core of where my interest lay, is the element of control, both control inside the bedroom and outside of it. I am expecting that with time, patience and constant manipulation and persistence you will become my little girl. I say little girl because I mean for your submission to happen both inside the bedroom (everything your thinking about right now) and outside (sleep schedule, clothes, ETC).  schedule routine, will be a persistent theme as we both work together to find creative ways to better your life. It is my responsibility and joy as your master, caretaker, and owner, to continually work with your desires and your submissive tendencies to build the best you, you can be! 

I have no expectations of anything quick, this will be a process that takes time, and it will have challenges for both of us. That Is why it is important to me, that we find a good chemistry together, and we build trust. While a core aspect of this is you relying on me…the truth is, I am also relying on you! Together we will create something incredibly deep and fun as we both explore our shared desire for domination and submission! 

Important aspects of our dynamic/kinks:

·        I am primarily interested in elements and aspects of control, as stated above, both inside and outside the bedroom. Whether that is creating a; sleep schedule, eating schedule, exercise routine, planning reading times ETC. It is important to me that I am there for you as much as possible guiding and supporting you.

·        Humiliation/degradation there will be times where you will be asked to do things, that will humiliate you, and you will feel embarrassed about. I have found that humiliation is an excellent form of punishment and it reinforces my role as your dom, and as above you.

·        Pain is not a big aspect of my style but there is a time and a place for it as a form of punishment. It is something we will talk about and find out your boundaries and desires for this.

·        The regiment that we will be discussing and going through is submission training. I might ask you to do something extremely boring, or something you do not want to do. It is along this training that you will learn that my desires are designed for your betterment as a submissive and a person.

·        I have many other kinks and desires that would be best discussed in person.

·        While some tasks may not be oriented around sex. Sexually dominating you is a core aspect of my desire for control, and there will be sexual only tasks for both your training and my amusement and needs.

the tasks that we will be assigned will fall under three categories;

1.      Things I actually want done. Example:  A clean and organized bedroom, a made bed every morning, have you take care of your houseplants, ETC

2.      Things that help you progress in areas we’ve agreed upon. Examples;  Daily affirmations. Volunteering in the community (not just the BDSM community). Staying in therapy. Learning to be precise with your language. Paying attention to what I say, not making up a story around it.

3.      Things that please me just because I like them. Serving me in specific ways. Amusing me. Wearing something specific because I said so.

My limits: blood, scat, violence, permanent damage, family, animals, blackmail, breath play, and other extreme kinks.

About you:
Ideally, I am looking for someone who is desiring to submit and is passionate about having a dom guide them and support them through there life. You should be happy and able to talk about yourself, as well as ask questions and be inquisitive of me. I enjoy a bubbly personality as much as a shy one, but I don’t enjoy the response: nothing when asked about your life. It will be expected of you that you are either already in a state of fitness or are willing to become fit and healthy as part of our training.

Reach out:
I  prefer it best if you are Europe based for time zone reasons and not in a relationship(I have no interest in being your secret to save your boring relationship). The last thing I'll say is please do not reach out if no photos/videos is a hard limit. I will not ask to see your face right away(but expect to eventually) or ask for anything outrageous.

If this post has interested you, please reach out and send me a DM. Tell me a bit about yourself and what you are looking for.