Hello reddit,

A year and a relationship since my last post, I’m finding my desires for the relationship I crave even more intense.

For as long as I can remember having a sexuality, I have craved total ownership by someone I felt was truly special. I’m hoping, by some miracle, that You are reading this now. Hello :)

In my day to day life, I am confident, funny, social, outgoing, and constantly learning some new random skill or hobby. I love art of all sorts, I make music, video games, exercise, go out dancing, travel, and am always down for new experiences.

I have found that many women naturally gravitate towards wanting me to dominate them. I do enjoy doing so, and I think I’m quite good at it. But if I’m being honest with myself what I enjoy most about it is seeing it please my partner. I get the vast majority of my sexual gratification from pleasing my partner, especially when I feel I can please her in a special way. This extends far beyond the bedroom. I like to treat my partner as a Queen, or a Princess, or whatever powerful figure she best exemplifies.

I want a partner who understands my need to please. Someone who can be greedy and use me freely but who is also respectful and appreciative of me as a person.

Ideally, I would like to find my life partner, although I don’t have the highest hopes of finding her here. I want a mutually supportive monogamous relationship that is fairly egalitarian outside of our sex life, although I like the idea of my partner having some gentle dominance over my normal life.

I find it gratifying to take care of my partner and let her constantly know how special she is even in the littlest ways. (Some examples: help you with your shoes, get you a glass of water when you’re all cozy in bed, cook for you, get up early to shovel your car.) I pride myself in my ability to anticipate my partner’s needs and prioritize her no matter who is around.

I want someone who really appreciates me, and similarly feels I’m special. I want mutual obsession. That way when you dominate me it means so much more because you truly value me. I want you to ego trip on how completely and utterly dedicated I am to making your life as pleasureful as possible.

I am extremely monogamous minded in my relationships. I like to solely dedicate my sexual energy to my partner—which includes not looking at porn or even thinking about any other woman and could include requiring permission to cum if that’s something that appeals to you.

I’m happy to provide a kink list if that’s something that interests you, but I don’t want you to feel that you have to perform any kinks for me. Odds are if you have a kink that gets you off I will be thrilled to learn how to perform it perfectly for you.

My only hard limits are scat, diapers, needles, cheating/cuckolding, permanent bodily-harm, and immoral stuff that should go without saying.

A few more quick little things: I am tall and fit with a medium amount of body hair. I usually sport a thick mustache and have been trying out a beard lately, but I’m happy to groom to your preferences.

I imagine I would best connect with someone older than 22 and younger than 44, although you can still message me if you fall outside that range (18 only, of course).

Physical attraction is important, so I would like to trade pictures within the first few days of talking.

It would be cool if you like to switch occasionally, but I am just as comfortable with someone who sees herself exclusively as a Domme.

I am willing to relocate for the right person.

There’s probably a lot more I could say but I’ve rambled long enough!

If I caught your interest, even if you don’t think you’re the perfect fit, you should reach out. I would love to talk :)