Ciao tutti! I’m looking for a long term partner. Someone kinky, kind, funny, thoughtful, adventurous, and into ANR. I’m NOT looking for a play partner/FWB and I have NO interest in age play.

I’m 43 and single—no kiddos. I live in the city. Curvy, but well proportioned. I love to run bright and early a few days per week. I love short hikes in the fall and winter. I am a bit anti-sun in the summer, but I love to kayak if I can get out on a weekday. I don’t smoke cigarettes or weed. I’m not a drinker, but I do enjoy a fancy NA beer at my favorite south city dive bar now and then…

Who I’m looking for: 38-48ish (very little wiggle room on age), non smoker (100% deal breaker), local to STL city or inner STL county, SINGLE (100% deal breaker), someone who is respectful of boundaries, and someone who is able to communicate clearly.

Attraction matters, of course, but I don’t have a specific type. Good hygiene, of course. Tattoos or no tattoos, beard or no beard, hair or no hair - it really just depends on the man behind it all. If you don’t like animals, especially dogs, it will never work out though.

I’m posting here instead of a dating site because I don’t see myself in a long term relationship that doesn’t include dry nursing. ANR is very important to me and I’m only looking for someone also wants this very specific type of relationship in the long term. Again - I do not participate in any sort of age play. No mommy/son, cougar/cub, or what have you.

I am also looking for someone who is okay with less PIV and more anal sex due to some pH balance issues. I know it isn’t for everyone and that’s okay. While I do enjoy anal sex, I do not participate in rimming, ass-to-mouth, or ass-to-pussy.

Some kinks I enjoy are:

• light impact play
• free use
• sexual objectification
• clothing control
• cockwarming
• restraint
• light breast bondage

If you made it through all of that and would like to chat, please reach out!

Please do: - let me know if you live in the city or county - tell me if you have experience in ANR - tell me what you enjoy most about ANR - tell me your favorite nursing position

If you live outside of STL city or inner STL county, are into age play (again - no mommy/boy play), out of my age range preferences, smoke, are married or in a relationship (ENM or otherwise), unable to share in hosting, or can’t communicate clearly - please don’t reach out.

I don’t need to see a picture of your genitals. Please don’t.

There is a picture on my profile.