Having fun reading all the posts on the subreddit? Judging all the insane posts of how this guy is a Dominant? I don't blame you, some of these are hilarious, the best ones are when they post the same ad every week. *Chef's Kiss*. Not like the women are any better, some of them are so very thirsty saying some wild things, which most likely means that they're ovulating, looking for that hit, then never to be seen again.

But you? No, you've been lurking on this subreddit for an embarrassingly long time, always reading never posting, trying to find something that gives you that wonderful tingle. At the same time you're looking for a person with depth. Not something one dimensional. We both know we're more than our kinks. Trying to find that someone to finally explore these ideas swimming in your head.

I'm looking for a woman that gets it. Gets what it means to be in the role as a submissive. Understands the level of opened-mindedness and security in herself to find the process of creating a dynamic alluring. Willing to be herself while respecting me doing the same. Has the range in being a militant slut one moment and be complaining about how your work is screwing you over and not appreciating you in the next. I'll accept you where you are and hopefully you're willing to explore with me how we move forward together.

Here's my previous ad to give you more context as to who and what I am - https://www.reddit.com/r/BDSMpersonals/comments/1gunx80/35_m4f_toronto_ontario_online_seeking_a/

If you manage to read everything and having gone through a few connections from my post a month ago, here are a few things that needs to added.

I'm not white. That question surprisingly came up a bunch and was a deal breaker. Might as well be upfront about it now. Not upset by it, honestly refreshed at the audacity and honesty. At least I know where they stand. No need to waste either of our times

Bare minimum communication are voice calls. I'm an audiophile and enjoy listening rather than reading. While I know that your texts are meaningful, hearing it makes it more impactful for me. Having your voice in my head keeps me engaged.