I know you’re reading this, and I’ll tell you something: we match. We’re a great match.

Now comes the hard part! Proving it to you. I’ve always found interesting how roles intertwine and get confused at introductions, by the way. Now I, who am the Dom, have to prove something to you, to present myself in the best light so you’ll take interest. Eventually that will change and it’ll shift, so it’s you who has to prove worthy of me. I understand it’s only natural, but this part always feels a bit uncomfortable. I’m not used to asking for attention. I don’t think I’ll ever be. But I diverge, as usual.

Name’s V. I’m 29, a Dom from the exotic land of Spain, where we speak spanish but don’t dance salsa, instead we drink wine (good wine) and eat paella. Apparently. English is not my first language, so you’ll have to forgive any mistakes I make. I try my best, though. So I’m in Europe’s timezone. I don’t mind if you’re not, but we’ll need to do some math!

I’ve been a Dom for 7 years now more or less. I do have some experience, but it would be arrogant of me to assume I know all there is to D/s. And when I tell you how I look, you’ll already think I’m arrogant enough, so let’s leave it at “I know some things, and am willing to learn everything else”.

I’m 1,80 m, or 5’11. I’m fit, although I’ve been injured so I haven’t been training as much, and I’m good-looking. You’ll decide if I’m attractive, though. For instance, I have earrings, I couldn’t grow a beard in a thousand years, I have short hair and green eyes (I’m white by the way, not that it matters), I love reading, and I enjoy movies and shows like any regular human being. What else… I have a dog. Or I used to, rather. Very cute, I love him very very much.

Full disclosure, I’m in a LTR. I don’t mind if you are too, I just need you to commit to our time being our own, regardless of other commitments. I’ll be very flexible around this.

And kink-wise, I’m very much into orgasm control (including edging and forced/ruined orgasms) and denial, I’m a sadist (this is important), and I have a fixation on choking, for whatever reason. There’s many other things I enjoy, like bondage, roleplay, anal training, petplay, degradation, public play… the list goes on. I do have a sense of humour, so if there’s a bratty side to you, it can relax, I don’t hate an attitude. I don’t enjoy punishments, I’m more of a rewarder. In any case, pain is part of the experience in a positive way.

I do have a bit of a thing for thin girls (or equally, girls who want to get thin/er). I’m not bodyshaming you, and mostly I care about what’s inside your head, but much like some people like carrot and I don’t (I actually have an interesting carrot story. Have you ever heard about it being good for eyesight? Well I (and the British Government) have something to say about that), I prefer girls on the thinner side. Being atracted to you is important. Not to say that I can’t find you attractive if you’re not, so please, if everything else resonates with you, feel free to message me. Again, what’s inside your head is the most important thing to me.

I’m looking for a slave-servant kind of girl who will find comfort in serving her Master. Comfort is important. While I take you to the places I want to go, you’ll feel exposed, ashamed, horny, and perhaps lost. I will be your purpose, your compass, and your will. So you will need me, there’s no other way around it, you must be comfortable letting go.

I’ll try almost anything at least once. CNC, however, as well as anything illegal/involving scat or serious injuries is strictly off-limits. But ruin isn’t. There’s a fine line there, but we’ll walk it without issues.

Other hard limits will be your own hard limits. I will respect them as if they were (because they are) my own.

Oh and yes please, do remember to communicate. I need that if this is going to go somewhere.

Ask me a question, then, and introduce yourself. Let’s see what you can do now.