Hi! I’m really exhausted by dating apps so I’m hoping someone here will find me intriguing enough to message. I spend most of my time reading and writing, playing a few video games. I’m a horror fan and I’d love someone to talk about it with, but I also like other things as well. I’m tired and anxious a lot, but I’m a very consistent texter and we can call/facetime. I’m very caring and thoughtful and loyal to a fault. I’m also neurodivergent, so feel free to ask me about that and what it means for me.

Kink wise, I’m submissive. I’m into light degradation and humiliation (not made to feel worthless but I’m easily embarrassed), teasing and orgasm control. I also recently discovered I like being marked up, whether that means with a marker or with bruises. I’m used to having rules. I have a few toys and I’d like to be more trained in a couple areas if that appeals to anyone. I’m also open minded about a few things but my limits include anal, body fluids, age/pet play, feet, and getting asked/told to take lewds/nudes. I have a bratty side that comes out when I’m comfortable with you, but I really love being put in my place and feeling like I’m owned and safe and taken care of.

Full disclosure, I’ve had some traumatic/unhealthy/damaging relationships/dynamics in the past, which causes me to be quite wary in the beginning. I get shy and nervous easily and downright scared by punishments - I want something healthier than what I’ve had and I want to unlearn that fear, but that involves having someone to teach me.

I’d really like to find someone consistent and caring and trustworthy, who’s there when I need them and who allows me to do the same. Humor is a plus but I’d like to have serious conversations too. If you’re dominant and/or have mommy/daddy energy (I have a little bit of a toned-down non-sexual little space which we can talk about) you get major points with me. (I think I’m somewhere in between masc and fem - I mostly wear t-shirts or sweatshirts or sweaters and jeans and I don’t wear makeup, but I wear necklaces and I’m growing out my hair and I put it up more days than not.) I’d love someone who texts regularly and communicates effectively - I understand we have lives but I hate when I’m “seeing someone” who doesn’t talk to me for days. For the same reason I’d prefer an exclusive relationship, whether that be a dynamic or as partners. I want to feel safe with you and like I can relax and be myself with you.

If you’re at all interested or would like to talk and see where things go, please message me - I’d love to get to know you. 😊 I hope to hear from you soon! 🩵