(Also [F4NB] but can only put one in the title!)

Hi there - you can call me Ariel! I’m a 33 year-old bratty masochistic sub iso Dommy/toppy/switchy partners. I'm a queer, curvy, extroverted introvert who loves spending quality time with my favorite people - maybe one day that'll include you 😁

I love singing, D&D, and crafting of all sorts! My geek side comes out at work where I do a lot of coding and statistics. But don't let that fool you - I'm a femme fashionista often sporting dresses (with pockets!), funky jewelry, combat boots, and jackets and purses dotted with various pins!

🔥The Kinky Stuff🔥

I'm interested in both dating and play partners who enjoy taking control of an otherwise incredibly competent woman. I want to get out of my own head and underneath you 😉 I love power struggles and being manhandled, "forced" to submit and shown what a good slut I can be. I loved being gagged, restrained, pinned down, unable to stop you from inflicting pain, pleasure, or a twisted combination of the two.

If you’re interested in CNC, sadism, enjoy a bit of bratting, like giving out some rules, and casually teasing and praising your partner both inside the bedroom and out, then I might be for you!

🍦The Vanilla Stuff🍦

I’m non-monogamous and interested in a wide range of partnerships, whether those are romantic, play partners, or something in between! I'd love to find a nesting partner. I'm mainly interested in long-term partners, though I could be open to short-term if the chemistry is there. I'm not really interested in having kids - I'm looking more to be the cool queer aunt the kids look up to. I just adopted a new kitty, and she's been a wonderful addition to my life 😊

I currently live in the Raleigh-Durham-Chapel Hill triangle in an adorably decorated femme cave! I really like this area and would like to remain here for the foreseeable future.

Not interested in dating conservatives, moderates, Christians, or anyone who lives more than two hours from the Triangle.

If you made it this far, hooray!! Please send me a message with this ✨fun little list✨ of things so we can get any potential deal breakers out of the way and get on to the fun chats!

• Name
• Age
• Location
• Political affiliation
• Religion
• Non-monogamous?
• Want kids?