This is a bit of a weird one. I've been a dominant all my life with all of my partners, but I've always been curious about subbing and many submissive kinks are extremely hot when I fantasize about them. However, every time I've tried meeting with a dom or exploring them, I haven't had great results. Not because the kinks, but because there was a personality clash.

However, I have had a few subs, in the past, that were into doing certain kinks - mainly facesitting - in the way I wanted because they liked serving. It ended up being extremely satisfying.

Unfortunately, for my case, most doms don't like being told what to do and most subs don't like being in a dominant position all that often. So, that's what I'm looking for here: a sub that would enjoy doing dominant type things because their dom tells them to; if you happen to be a dom that isn't experienced and would like someone to tell you what to do, or you just like being topped from the bottom, I'd be into that too. Ultimately, I tell you how to dominate me, then you do it - we can go all in and I can even tell you what kinds of things to say, how to do them, etc. Tell me what works for you.

As for kinks, there are many I'd like to incorporate, you don't have to be into the whole list, but the more the better: facesitting, smothering, teasing, edging, bathroom, humiliation, degradation, spanking, threatening, emotional manipulation, ass eating; I'm sure there are more I could come up with.

While my goal here is to train you to be my perfect, personal dom, we can incorporate more traditional dom / sub kinks - that is, not everything has to be based around this, but I would like it to be the main focus.

I'm looking for something in person, not online. I want someone that is looking for a longterm type of connection, something we can build and elaborate on, not a one time interaction.