Were you a good girl all of 2024 and still Daddyless? Maybe we can fix that!

I’m Oak (a nickname, but it fits for now). I’m 41, currently living in Germany, though my roots are in another part of northern Europe, and I’ve had the pleasure of calling several countries home over the years.

Appearance: I’m about 6’3” with short hair, blue-grey eyes, and a well-conditioned beard that I keep in check. You could call it a “Dad bod”—suits me well enough! I’m tattoo- and piercing-free these days, though I’ve dabbled in the latter in the past. I like to put thought into what I wear (a habit I picked up living in Italy).

What I’m Hoping For: I’d love to connect with someone who resonates with the terms little, princess, babygirl, or sub (but hey, labels are flexible, just like good cuffs!). Right now, I’m looking for a meaningful, rewarding dynamic—online to start but ideally long-term. Ideally you’d be a good communicator, enjoying both deep or playful chats, getting to know one another, nothing sexual to start. Then either VMs, or other ways to get to know one another.

About My “Daddy” Side: I’m playful but know when to be stern, with a natural instinct to care and nurture. While I’m not typically a masochist, I can get a little rough at times and sometimes forget my own size and strength. But my heart? It’s bigger than both. I enjoy storytelling, reading to a little, checking in on their day, their challenges, aspirations and helping with all of these aspects.

Vanilla Side: By day, I’m a creative professional with a solid career. I’ve worn many hats—educator, writer, music industry professional—you name it. Variety keeps me going. I’m also a post-graduate researcher with a passion for culture and sociology.

Hobbies: Music is my first love—whether I’m playing, listening, writing, or talking about it. Literature is a close second; ask me about my favorite books if you’re ready for a deep dive!

What I’m Looking For: Age, location, looks—they’re secondary to that intangible spark. I’m looking for someone who values genuine connection and wants to nurture it with open, engaging conversation. I’m also open to chatting on other platforms, verifying if it helps, and sharing voice messages.

NSFW/Kinks: I’m pretty open-minded with an interest in many things, mostly aligned with the DD dynamic. But to be clear, this is something I’d only explore with a deep connection—it’s way down the line, ready to unfold naturally.

If you’ve made it this far, thanks for taking the time! And if you reply, let me know: If you could live inside any book, movie, or song for a week, which one would it be and why?

It’ll tell me you’re not just skimming.

Looking forward to getting to know you and hopefully making a meaningful connection!