I'm looking for a sub who likes psychological domination. To feel something real, to have their dom become a major part of not only their life but their very thoughts, to develop their submission to be almost instinctive and condition them such that arousal is not their main motivation for obedience.

I seek for a sub to become pet not only in a fetish sense but a literal sense. The essence of a pet is that a pet comforts their owner merely by existing. In return you as a pet should feel free to be open, to be utterly true to yourself, not having to pretend you're the person you present day to day.

Come to me when you're happy, when you're sad, dance the beautiful dance of being so intimate and vulnerable with someone who owns you

I'd love a sub that's service orientated but I appreciate how hard and one sided that can be, that's why I feel intensity is important. If you're going to be giving then as a Dom it's important to me that you not simply serve but feel dominated. Eventually you should feel slightly dominated even in mundane conversations with me.

I've always been a fairly intense dom. For me for a D/S relationship to feel real it has to both positive and negative reinforcement, to mirror how a regular relationship is. I find when it's all one or the other that's when it feels unrealistic and I like an actual relationship. Think of it like, you can't just constantly be harsh to someone without respite, but similarly if you want to control someone you can't just be constantly nice since you'll need to be firm and strict at least on occasion.

I often say that D/S isn't about what you do but how you do it and how you do everything. That's why I said earlier that even mundane conversation can have a sub in their role or feeling submissive

That's kind of how I see it, when a dominant and a sub are together it's like reality just warps around them and in that magical space they can be the truest version of themselves

I value companionship a lot. We look after each other but in completely different ways I suppose you should see it as two different types of devotion.

So if you feel like you want to go on this journey with me don't hesitate to to message me via DMs or Reddit chat!