About Me Iām 24 and work from homeāa gig I started during COVID and have stuck with since. Currently, Iām heading back to school for veterinary science (yes, Iām obsessed with animalsāI have five pets!). Iām spiritual, nature-loving, and enjoy activities like painting, hiking, camping, snowboarding, anime and gaming. If we click, maybe I can share some of these with my future Dom.
I can be laid-back but also a brat and a crybaby at times. Iāve got a smart mouth, so if youāre not someone who enjoys putting a brat in her place, we wonāt be a match.
Appearance Iām 5ā8Ā½, with chocolate-brown eyes that shimmer caramel in the sun. My current hair color is red, I tend to change my hair a lot (thanks to wigs), but I have locs underneath. Iām brown-skinned, lighter in winter, and slim but working on building some curves at the gym. Iāve got tattoos, piercings, and braces.
What Iām Looking For
I want a Dom who understands the balance between dominance and care. Specifically, Iām searching for a Dom/Caregiver/Brat Tamer who: ā¢ Age: Is between 23-41 years old. ā¢ Height: Preferably 6ā0 (I like tall men!). ā¢ Status: SingleāI donāt share. ā¢ Dynamic: Is open to a real-life relationship (no virtual/online-only dynamics). ā¢ Physical Attraction: Chemistry and attraction are important to me for a lasting connection. Iām drawn to committed, reliable, and supportive Doms who are natural leaders. I need someone whoās strong enough to provide the structure and care I crave, but also someone who values me as an equal partner in our dynamic. Preferably someone who likes to work out and stay fit, tattoos are a bonus just for my eye candy but not a requirement lol.
Deal Breakers ā¢ Virtual-only dynamics. ā¢ Neglecting my emotional/mental well-being or aftercare. ā¢ A dictator mindsetāgentle leadership is key.
My Ideal Dom ā¢ Knows how to balance being strict with being affectionate and caring. ā¢ Values communication, love, effort, and understanding. ā¢ Is okay with me pursuing my passions, working, or chasing my dreams. ā¢ Takes pride in acts of service (e.g., fixing things, taking out the trash). ā¢ Supports me emotionally and mentally while leading us to a stronger bond. ā¢ Plans thoughtful dates, gives sweet gestures (forehead kisses are my fave), and understands my love languages. ā¢ Wants a Dom/sub dynamic that goes beyond the bedroom into a meaningful relationship. ā¢ Encourages me to explore and learn my kinks while teaching me new things.
Kinks I Enjoy ā¢ Bondage ā¢ Light BDSM ā¢ Masochism ā¢ Orgasm denial/control ā¢ Praise & punishments ā¢ Impact play ā¢ Light degradation ā¢ Choking/āhand necklacesā ā¢ Aftercare ā¢ Free use (with set rules)
If any of this resonates, send me a messageāwith a picture of your face, please. Letās see if weāre a match. ā”
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