The title says alot, I want a long term dynamic that is built into a relationship. I still want to have normal vanilla couple appearance on the outside, but a hidden dungeon room inside the house (metaphorical?).
I want the dynamic to extend beyond the bedroom. I see this playing out as extended play sessions with a healthy mix of vanilla and kink in day to day life. Think, spending the weekend bound in various restraints, cuddling in bondage, different predicaments, tasks, etc. then back to reality for a little bit with some kink sprinkled in. I love exploring and trying new things both in kink and outside of kink.
In my vanilla life i am a traditionally successful man. i travel frequently, workout and go to the gym almost daily, play video games, and work a pretty demanding, albeit flexible job. I consider myself fairly attractive, willing to swap pics after some conversation. Love going to breweries and trying new restaurants. I am a mix of adventurous, wanting to try new things and explore, as well as appreciating a quiet night in. Love walking down on beach at night, or setting up a blanket with a speaker and some drinks.
Kink: i love restraints, all kinds, but particularly rope, gags, collars. Love anal play and oral use. Edging and denial. Rules, tasks. I am definitely a sadist and like to come up with fun and creative punishments and predicaments. I like to challenge you.
There is certainly alot more. But if this has peaked your interest, shoot me a message and we can see where it goes.
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