Let's start with generic information, I'm 37 yo, 173 cm, heavy build, not fit but slowly moving back on track. I have wonderful hazel green and gold catlike eyes (that I'm extremely proud of) and salt and pepper hairs that I keep short. I have a short beard.

I have many interests, in first place I like friends company, and they are me, are huge nerds. I like to watch movies and series, to read, to build and paint plastic models, I love tabletop RPG and when time allow me I do some gaming, if the muse help me I write. I love to cook, and I'm really good at it, especially tex-mex things and some oriental dishes. I like spicy food in general. Plus huge fan of red wines and beer.

I'm a respectful person, I respect any gender, religion or lifestyle, as long I'm respected in first place. Sounds like something normal, but most people pretend respect without give it back... Also, I'm a spontaneous and direct person, I always say what I think and what I have in mind.

On the BDSM side, I started my journey at 16, more about just chatting with older people to learn the base, to give names to the desires I felt, and at 18 I started to actively practice. I collected a lot of experience both irl and online, I like to try new stuffs and learn new things, even if after all this time I have clearly in mind who I'm and what I want. I like control and training, shaping a sub to be a perfect slave, I like to be active part of her day, to control it, control her time and activity. This is of course something that can't just be done as one meet. It need time and a strong bound between me and her. And this is what I mainly seek, someone able to create a bound with, someone to connect so deeply that words becomes accessory and the complicity of a look it's enough for understand each other. As I mentioned I like control and training, but I have a really long kink list, just for mentions some, I like anal play, restrictions, forced orgasm, orgasm control, chastity, sensations play, breath play, TPE, facefuck, humiliation, degradation....I can go on all day listing I think... I have few limits but I always respect the ones of the partner, helping her to cross the soft one if necessary. I know, this was a long wall of text, but differently from my usual posts I tried to be more specific and more detailed.