Basic about me: 6’2, medium-long brown hair, hazel eyes, chubby but actively working on losing weight and getting in shape. I use they/them pronouns but was amab so I have a dick and look rather masculine.

The Bio: I went to school for film and television production and worked in Hollywood as a health and safety coordinator for a show up until the WGA and SAG strikes closed down the industry. With this shutdown, I shifted careers and I currently live in a remote mountain town in Northern Washington, a couple hours outside Seattle, and now work in the outdoor and environmental education world with hopes of being a documentarian about environmental issues!

Art is very important to me and I’ve been told very often I am a pedantic hippie who spends too much time trying to figure out life’s big questions. I love philosophy, artistic expression, radical thinking, and people who question the world around them with curiosity and wonder. In the center of all of this is a deep admiration for love and joy and i need someone else who can view the world through a similar lens with me. Enjoyment, community, love, and indulgence are central tenets to my worldview (although it has not been an easy road getting to this point). I want someone who can share in life’s pleasures with me and wants to live life looking for the best in the world and embrace lessons learned from the worst.

Life has so many colors and shades of emotion, I embrace them all and let myself feel them. If you want a traditional male stoic, I am not he.

The Kink: I do not enjoy TPE or having a dominant dynamic at all times, so if you’re looking for a 100% TPE dynamic, I am unable to provide. I am looking for an equal partner in life with whom we can each explore both our sexual kinks and identities, but also our intimate and personal identities as well. I am more dominant when it comes to sex and do enjoy the typical dom/sub dynamic in the bedroom, I just like having the comfort of being able to split emotional labor equally in all other aspects of life outside of the bedroom. If you’re strong and independent, but enjoy some unbalanced power play occasionally, this would work wonderfully.

Who am I looking for? Someone with hopes and dreams and an endless imagination. I want to support my partner in becoming the best version of themselves they can be and want someone who wants the same for me. I want someone with their own likes and desires and is largely independent, but someone who will grow and learn with me. I want to be close, intimate, and genuine, while not becoming totally codependent. I want you to have a dream for yourself and I want to help support you obtain that dream and more. I am not looking for my other half, I am looking for another full soul so we can both experience this world through different eyes.

Communication, honestly, transparency, and vulnerability are the qualities I cherish most and the most important qualities I look for in a match

More specific kinks: im into a lot and for the most part always down to try anything once. Here are my most prevalent, but none are hard needs and everything, of course, must be discussed beforehand to make sure we’re both enthusiastically consensual: bondage, orgasm denial, edging, pegging, sensory deprivation, sensual overload, free use, public play, some ddlg, role playing, cnc, pain play, and lots of toys

I hope something in that stood out to you, and if so you feel like reaching out! Message me however you choose, thank you for reading this far!