Starting this by talking about me, let me write a brief premise. I do not want to make fun of anyone, hurt anyone, make anyone waste their time. I am extremely genuine, well-mannered and brutally honest. Think about me as some sort of online gentleman, but very kinky. The thing is I won't "jump" on you just because I'm kinky. I want a real interest to be between us, and the only way to do so is by knowing each other. I don't want to sound too formal, because I'm also extremely easy-going and friendly. With that said, I am an European gentle Dominant that has been doing this for the last three years with some breaks in between. No, the fact I call myself gentle Dom does not mean I'm soft. My true dominant side comes out on sexual aspects and most of my pleasure comes from having control. Maybe that's why my favourite kinks are Free use and CNC. I love the idea of giving tasks, rules and punishments. It is also very important to say I am a very reasonable person: I am not looking to go against limits, common decency, exposing, illegal stuff and most importantly, always feeling comfortable together. The fact you give me control does not mean I'm looking to break your life. On top of that, as any sort of BDSM dynamic should be, we would have safewords. More than one actually, depending on the reasons and comfort, but I'd rather explain this in private with those of you more interested. For what concerns other aspects of me, I lean towards demi-sexuality. That means emotional connection and mental attraction do a lot to me, and that's why I'm looking for an online dynamic (that could possibly move to in person, but just online at first). I have been told I am handsome. But I do realize beauty/attraction are very subjective. It is important that, at some point (NOT RIGHT AWAY) both of us will feel comfortable trading validation/verification pictures. Completely SFW, of course.

And what am I looking for? A kinky dynamic. Let me explain what I mean. Starting with its name, I prefer calling it dynamic over relationship because dynamic to me feels less vanilla and more focussed on BDSM aspects. This won't be a simple relationship because I'm looking to involve rules and overall control over your (sexual) choices. Despite me being a very sexual person, I don't want just sex. The goal is to build a solid connection between us and being able to open up, trust each other more, show our true colours and of course having fun together. I do not expect anything right off the bat but I want small steps to be taken together. Then as I've said before, the "kinky part" is entirely around the idea of teasing and attention giving: I want to spoil you with attention because I really crave you. I want you because you are beautiful to me, I want to talk to you because I really feel delighted to. Eventually, that's the goal.

Who am I looking for? Well, let's say everyone is welcome. But that does not mean I'm going to have an harem of partners. What I'm trying to say is you shouldn't really be worried about your past experiences, your fears, your limits nor about anything else. If you read this topic, find it interesting, think you want something similar, then just get in touch. The only way to understand if this will work, is just by talking to together. Maybe this is the only requirement I consider mandatory in my possible little/sub: being open to communication. From my experience I had people expecting a BDSM dynamic to work without communicating at all, actually getting bored of discussing about how things will work.If you think talking a lot will be boring, I am afraid I won't be your person. But if you enjoy the idea of truly understanding each other and what we will end up doing together, this will work like a charm. It is also very important to mention I am not looking to build my sub: I am very kinky friendly so I'm open to try your fantasies as well, but I won't try to force you into anything at all. I want you to be yourself. And if you are a sweet, gentle, submissive little girl who enjoys being spoiled with praising and attention, that will be even better.

Last but not least, little side. To me, little sides are not sexual. If you have a little side I am completely open to understand your personal preferences. Overall, outside of sexual/kinky aspects I am a caregiver. My idea on how to approach a little side is mostly about guidance and nurturing. This will be something else we can discuss private, eventually.