Good day to you, and I hope this message finds you well.
This House is a traditional (Old Guard, High Protocol) style house located in the Harrisburg, PA area and the mission of the House is to bring back the days of Respect, Honor, and Reason. It seeks to bring back old school values to a community that seems to be focused on how good someone looks or what gender someone is, etc. For most of you, this will seem a pointless and worthless (perhaps dangerous) pursuit. But for those few who seek out this type of structure, this is who this post is for.
This is not an attempt to kink shame or to make an argument against what you personally believe in, but rather to explain the values this House follows. The members all recognize that there are many paths in BDSM, however this is ours, and we are seeking people who agree. If you agree with most of these points, then you may very well thrive here. If you do not, then the House (and me personally) wish you well in your search to find your Owner.
One of the core tenants of the House is that to form a bond between Owner and Submissive, you must look past the physical and form the bond based on your willingness to serve. This means that you are willing to submit to a man or a woman (or both). If you are limited by what sex your Owner is, then you are not who we are seeking.
There are a lot of people that feel this lifestyle is all about sex. That sex needs to happen all the time and without it, the relationship fails. House members feel this is not correct. Yes, while sexual play is fun and there is sexual activity that people engage in here, it is not the end all and be all of what the lifestyle should be centered around. If you feel that sexual gratification is the main purpose of BDSM, then you are not who this post is for.
The goals of the House are self-improvement based. Both myself and my Slave (the "leaders" of the House) both have a kink for helping people. We want you to grow and be better. The House will never ask that you give up your source of income (nor will we touch your income without your consent), ask you to give up family or friendships or worship anyone as your god (except the god you already worship if you already do). Most decisions are made by discussion and, if needed, debate (always friendly).
This would be something that starts online (unless you live within driving distance, of course), but has the focus of making it a live-in position after getting to know each other fairly well. To be clear, you would need to be open to the idea to move the relationship to being in person within a reasonable (based on what is going on in your life currently) amount of time. Reasonable being within 3 months ideally for in person visits and a year and a half for being a live-in.
A collar would be offered to the House, but not until 2 and a half years pass (and just to be clear, 1 year of that time being a live-in). This is not for those who want immediate results, but someone who understands the concept of working towards something that they thirst for.
The House positions we have currently open all require some basic agreements in how you view the world.
Submissives (Slaves/Kajiras/Pets/etc.) who are not collared to someone.
Switches as long as they realize that to the House, they are always to be in Submissive mode (with some aspects of being dominant to other Submissives may be required at times)
Any gender (Service to an ideal is not based on gender).
Any age (Above legal age, of course).
Any location (though the eventual goal would be to be a live-in).
Polyamorous people (or someone willing to accept that most of the people in the house are poly). Not swingers, but actual Polyamorous people.
People who are comfortable with themselves and are open to being in public with a collar on.
Those who are called to a higher purpose of submission besides the sexual aspect.
We are NOT looking for....
Someone who feels that BDSM is about trying to get laid.
Someone who feels BDSM is all about how you look.
Someone who feels that they know everything and refuse to learn new ways of seeing the world.
Someone who judges others.
Someone who seems to always have a LOT of drama in their life. Some is ok if you are willing to work on it.
Someone who is using BDSM to escape their life and have it be micromanaged.
Some things move you to the front of the line.
Being at least 30 years old.
A love of the Marketplace series of books. That attitude and feel is what we are about (except for the real world slave trading, of course).
Intelligent people who can complete tasks with minimal direction.
Has been a live-in Submissive before.
A passion for gaming of all kinds (not just video games).
Knowledgeable with technology to the level of programming.
Military service [Please state branch and MOS (or equivalent)].
If you wish to speak more about the House or if you have any questions, feel free to message us (not chat please).
Please note that your first message (and others, but mainly your first) is your first impression. Please make it a good one. Take the time to explain why you would make a good fit, your experiences, your age (and something exceptional about you if needed), etc.
Even if we aren't a good fit for you, we wish you the best of luck finding an Owner.
House Pepperjack
"It may sound severe. Almost anti-erotic. Until you see 2 people, owner and owned, existing in a complementary relationship where each suits the other like balances on a delicate scale. Until you feel the energy of their rapport, you cannot understand how they fulfill each other, take and give in ways no negotiation could possibly express. Then, you will understand that singular intimacy which drives such people on their search for perfection. It is beyond orgasm. Beyond love. It can almost be called 'Rapture'." - Chris Parker
P.S. The age is an average age of all those who are part of the House. When I tried to post without an age, and it was taken down.
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