I want to preface this perhaps kind of strangely? I'm not looking to jump into sexting immediately. I want to get to know you before anything happens; and have attraction build up organically. I do not get people who can exchange pleasantries and jump into sexual conversations right away. It seems way too cheap and easy.

Me:

34, well educated, have a good job and life in general.

6'0/184cm, 210lbs/94kg and decently muscular. I do lifting and martial arts. I don't have a 7� or anything, but you can tell I work out and stay active. To quote an old friend, "you've got the physique of an ex-soviet PE teacher I had, he destroyed us on dodgeball" :P, meaning I'l pretty broad shouldered, got a big chest and look like I could carry most people around if I wanted to.

I'm confident enough to say that I'm decently attractive.

I live in Scandinavia. My job takes me around the world however, which I love.

You:

You care about your looks and health. You think you're attractive(because, if anything, that means you're confident).

It's OK if you don't have life and career figured out. I'm happy to chime in and give advice!

You know that being submissive is very different from being passive. In fact, the two couldn't be further apart.

You're looking for a long term fwb situation, and you're looking to balance an emotional and sexual connection together.

I am open to all races. Most importantly, you're into Scandinavian looking men(tall, light eyes), because I can't really change that fact about me :P

You're from anywhere in the world. Asynchronous communication is OK and even expected. You're articulate in written form as it's how we'll primarily communicate. It's OK if English isn't your native language(it isn't mine either!) - we'll figure it out :)

To be a bit more BDSM-specific, I'm into both physical domination: restraint/bondage, spanking, as well as mental control, i.e. picking outfits for you(clothes control), making decisions on your behalf and allowing you to give up power in certain dynamics. Of course, the latter takes time to build up, and hence i'm not looking for a short-term thing :) I'm very much into feminine aspects of you(i.e. dresses, heels). You don't have to be like that already, but I do expect you to be open to changing your looks a bit for me(of course to something that still fits your personality).

Please do PM/chat me. We can take it at whichever pace we're both comfortable with. Happy to exchange face pictures early on, and verify in a way. If you've made it this far, I'd think you're interested - so even if a small part of you got excited reading this in a good way.. Well, take your chance.