Hi there, my name is Ben and I'm a 34 year old bisexual trans man and ABDL/Little Boy located in Central Florida.
I'm a little nerdy in that, I love watching TV shows, I have been known to write fanfics, I play D&D with my friends, I listen to true crime and audio drama podcasts, I play video games poorly even on easy mode (PS4 mainly) and I am a very proud cat dad, I have a hat and everything!
I'm also a really big Disney adult, not gonna lie. I go to the parks pretty often since I have an annual pass and I even have a Disney tattoo. I would love to have a partner to go to Disney with as I hate going alone, it's a bit lonely standing in line with no one to talk to. However I am not a thrill seeker by any means, only baby rides for this little boy.
Honestly I'm looking for my forever partner, for my person, for my best friend and absolute world. I'm looking for the dominant counterpart to my subby existence. I'm a needy little boy and I need a partner that craves being needed because with me, you will be. I am a hopeless romantic. I'm the kind of guy to send you "drive safe" texts every day at the same time so you know I'm thinking of you. I have also been known to wax poetic about the person I'm interested in, quite often actually. I have a world of love to lavish on the right person.
I'm monogamous and child-free
Full disclosure, I want to be a househusband. It sets my soul on fire to think of being able to be small as often as possible, getting to take care of the home and pets while my caregiver works and provides for us. I crave that life so much. It would be so wonderful to center my life around taking care of my Daddy or Mama. I want to be your little boy in every way.
Currently I work retail full time and plan on being at my current job for about 11 more years but after that if my partner and I could afford it I would love to quit and be their stay-at-home little boy.
I'm looking for a 24/7 cg/l dynamic. I need structure, rules, and a Dom that can enforce discipline. I'm not always small or in subspace and I wouldn't expect a Dom to always be in Dom space but I need our roles to be set, with a constant undercurrent of our power dynamics. Like we could be joking around but you could always pull the Caregiver Card and put me in my place.
My little space is anywhere between 0-4 though I usually skew lower as I love feeling cared for. I do love diapers and I love the idea of being padded for my caregiver's enjoyment as much as mine. I also want to be collared one day, I want to belong to my partner completely and I want the world to know they own me.
I have social anxiety disorder and depression. Both are medicated with pills and medical marijuana. I am a stoner baby and never plan on changing that. I would love to move somewhere that weed is completely legal though.
I'm not super religious but I am spiritual and I do have some pagan beliefs. I have tarot cards, crystals and in general I'm somewhat polytheistic. I'm a witchy baby~
All in all I'm looking to fall in love and get married someday. I'm looking for something real and genuine and life-changing in a positive way.
I can't stand being ghosted and have been ghosted in long term relationships as well as short term ones. Just be an adult and say you're not interested, I don't have time for game playing. I might be a Little but I still want and deserve an emotionally mature and healthy partner.
I'm short (5'1") and have brown hair, brown eyes and a short beard. I have selfies ready to share and I'll need a selfie of you.
I'm a huge talker so if you suck at texting/calling/or keeping plans please don't waste my time. I will talk your ear off. I am open to long distance but we would need to text/video call/visit as much as possible before closing the distance. I need to feel like a real part of your life even if there is distance between us.
If you feel like we'd be a good match then please message me! Tell me about yourself and what you're looking for, I can't wait to meet you! :)
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