Get carried away. It is Christmas Eve, and we are writing -- and you are reading -- a dirty personals ad. It’s time to be daring.

Her: He's a cis male hetero dom. He's an intellectual, he's somewhat professorial, he's great with his hands and even better with his words. He approaches play like an engineer--he is, in fact, an engineer--making a project of mapping your vulnerabilities and strengths, triggers and cravings. His primary interest is intimacy and control.

Him: As a dom, what I want most is to understand you and your kinks and needs and leverage them to turn you into my wanton, eager, desperate and begging toy. To shape you into a friend and plaything who delights in my impact.  To get inside your head so that I can make you dance for me with a flick of my fingers.

Her: I'm a cis female bisexual switch. I've been into power exchange since before I knew what power was. I'm compassionate and I love to laugh. I like to top, but surrender is the best intoxicant I know. My play is creative, collaborative, intimate, and intense. I've been involved in the public kink scene for awhile, and involved with my partner (below) on and off for over a decade. I'm a surprisingly empowered emotional masochist and a genuine pain slut.

Him: She’s a gorgeous and intense submissive with a resoundingly kinky mind. She is never more intensely herself than when she is broken and tormented and given the chance to show her devotion to her daddy and owner.

We're looking for friend-with-benefits, a play-partner-in-crime. A connection based in respect, kindness, and celebration of shared depravity. We’re a good fit for:

*Someone who’s bi, pan, or curious
*Who leans submissive, who craves intensity
*Who enjoys a good high-femme peacock
*Who is interested in the mental and emotional side of BDSM
*Who is smart and grounded and knows how to communicate
*Who values friendship, mentorship, and community with other kinky people
*We're not big drinkers, but are 420 friendly and prefer the same.

Him: So be a good girl, the kind of girl daddy will tie up and tease while your new friend proposes all manner of delightful torments. Make some new friends and maybe something more.

Reply with your age, your kinks, and tell us what most piqued your interest about this little ad.