Hi good morning/day/evening from wherever you're reading! I'm new to the online scene and searching for a play partner or general partner, so I hope I'll do well at communicating my baseline well.
A little about me:
- I am a 26 year-old male from Europe, but currently living abroad (GMT 3) due to work.
- I am 180cm tall, slim (not too athletics/muscular, but I am actively working on it for the past few months and intend to keep working on myself). Currently at 72kg.
- I am a data scientist turned project/program manager by profession, and in my day-to-day life I need to manage a lot of people, resources. Outside of work, I enjoy playing video games, working out, jogging/long walks, and reading/writing stories - mostly fantasy.
- I'm able to enjoy staying at home and just watching movies or playing games, or going outside for various activities.
- I am looking for someone to not only do sexual/BDSM things with, but also get to know each other, build up trust, and develop a good play or romantic partnership together. Not looking for a quick high or something planned short-term.
- Early on I will be wiling to exchange photos, and face once we build up trust. If things are going well I would like to verify myself with some ID and/or a video call, and I would expect for you to share this same value.
- I am not too experienced in D/s, but I am willing to work together and follow your lead on many things.
- I believe myself to be grounded, conscientious, respectful, well-mannered, intelligent.
About you:
- Female between 23 and 27 years of age, but I am open as long as it is not too far away from my age.
- Healthy, slim, and working on yourself as I am working on myself - I'm sorry but otherwise I find it will be difficult for me to be sincere in our dynamic if I am not also physically attracted to you.
- Interested in exploring your dominant side and building a healthy D/s dynamic online, which we can discuss to transition IRL at some point, if things are aligned.
- Being confident or strong or such is not a must, even if you are shy or need some time to get into it, I understand it isn't easy for everyone.
Kinks:
- Femdom/FLR/TPE (FLR/TPE as we develop the dynamic further and build trust)
- Bondage
- Pet Play
- Orgasm control
- JOI/CEI
- Verbal humiliation / degradation / praise
- Etc. We can exchange kink lists once we get to talking.
Limits:
- Scat, piss
- Anything illegal
- Anything with permanent damage
Message me with a quick introduction about yourself (name location, kinks, limits, expectations) , and why you would like to explore this dynamic with me (i.e.: what caught your eye from my post that made you interested).
Please do not give just a "hi" message, that would be very appreciated.
Hopefully I gave a good introduction and I am looking forward to writing back and forth with you. If I missed anything, or something doesn't make sense, feel free to ask and I'll add to it when replying to your message.
Thanks for reading this very long post!
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