My Vanilla Life: I am a beautiful, curvy, confident, soft and sadistic dominant woman. I tend to keep fairly busy with work, but in my downtime I lead a quiet life. I love playing video games, reading and being creative, and I usually prefer a night cozy on the couch over a night out.

My Lifestyle Experiences: My primary experiences have been IRL, but for personal reasons, I'm currently looking to start with an online/LDR. Please be open to an IRL dynamic in time, but don't be overly hasty for one.

My Kinks: orgasm control and denial, edging, teasing, power exchange, begging, light marks, praise (especially "good boy"), pegging, rewards, rules

My Limits: scat, extreme pain, kids, animals, scarring, anything illegal

My ideal scenario would be a FemDom household in which my partner and I would look absolutely vanilla in the eyes of the outside world, he presents as a doting partner, but behind closed doors he is there to serve and please me. While I want your devotion, I also want to EARN it. And to do that we need to have trust between us. To gain trust we must have open and honest communication always.

My Ideal submissive: 18-47 years old Intelligent and articulate Attractive Ready and able to commit to a relationship and dynamic Shares a strong overlap in kinks/limits with me overall (it's perfectly alright if some don't line up)

Instructions for messaging me: No honorifics for me until I tell you to At the beginning of your message, include your age, time zone (or location, if you're comfortable), name (if you're comfortable), height, weight, and one word to describe yourself. In the body of your message, include information about your vanilla life. How do you spend your days? Do you work or go to school? What do you enjoy doing to relax? Things like that. Either give me a list of your kinks and limits, or if that makes you uncomfy this early on, simply tell me if ours align well enough.

You will not get a reply if ANY of the following apply: You haven't put effort into your message. You haven't followed all of my instructions. You want to top me. You don't fit my ideals.

P.S. While I welcome any level of sexual/relationship/dynamic experience, I do have a soft spot/preference for those that are fairly inexperienced in any/all of the above. I also find shyness very cute, so if you fit the bill, be brave and reach out!