Small opening statement I'm a sucker for control.

Anyone want to keep me company for Christmas and new years. Dms open to anyone.

I am very new to BDSM I want to be someone's owner. The pageantry (costumes, collars, and other aesthetics) aren't my thing but rather I care more about the ownership, possession, and responsibility however I'm not against the aesthetics necessarily if that's something you enjoy. I think Pet play or a human pet encompasses what I want. I want a pet who when I come home reacts much like a puppy begging for attention. Enjoys long cuddles and movies. Doesn't resent that they know their place as a pet. Respects my place as their owner. I respect if you know what you want, but I'm new so if you're still figuring it out I understand and can relate.

I know I'm overemphasizing the dynamic part but really I do want a relationship at the end of the day I want to be someone's everything id like mutual respect good communication, trust, honesty, loyalty and everything else that makes for a great relationship. I'm MONOGAMOUS so please no FWB or Polyamory. It's just not for me.

I'm not looking to get into a dynamic quickly or maybe more accurately I want to know someone deeply and trust them first. so if any of this interests you and you wanna talk ask questions (I'm an open book and I really value honesty) Open your message as simple or as elaborate as you want. Ideally be 18-35 but 35 isn't a hard limit I just imagine more than a 10 year difference we would probably be in very different parts of our lives. I also wouldn't mind talking to my fellow inexperienced individuals as figuring things out together I think makes sense.

Some of my interests SFW I collect movies (Blu-ray), video games, collect balisongs IYKYK, Cooking, and long walks.

My kinks include Free-Use, Sleep kink, CNC, Pet play, Breeding, Praise, and probably more. Also possibly Orgasm control/ denial?, Degradation?, TPE? But I'm not quite sure. I do have a long document with questions relating to kinks and fantasy but I don't want to open with that here before talking a little. Limits: anything illegal, scat, piss, blood, bruising and possibly more.

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