Hi, I’m Sam, a 23-year-old Christian man from the Midwest US. My faith plays a central role in my life, and I’m looking for someone who shares a commitment to honoring boundaries and values grounded in mutual respect. While my ultimate goal is a lifelong, faith-based marriage, I’m also excited to explore the complexities of a BDSM dynamic with a like-minded partner.

I’m a proud switch, open to both dominant and submissive roles, and I’m particularly interested in meeting partners who are equally open-minded. Whether you lean more toward the dom side, the sub side, or somewhere in between, I value creativity, trust, and clear communication in any dynamic.

Here’s a bit more about me:

• Faith and Values: I’ve been a Christian all my life, recently experiencing a resurgence in my faith. I take care to ensure that any dynamic I explore remains aligned with my beliefs—no kinks that involve dehumanization or violate moral boundaries. Instead, I enjoy aspects of caregiving, nurturing, and emotional intimacy that reinforce connection and respect.
• Kinks and Preferences: While I have a nurturing side, I also enjoy dynamics with a gentle sense of control or guidance. I’m particularly drawn to soft dom/sub dynamics, praise and affirmation, and acts of service—giving and receiving. I’m happy to explore more with the right person!
• Personality and Lifestyle: Loyal, kind-hearted, and introspective. I enjoy meaningful connections, whether we’re discussing our favorite topics or navigating new experiences. Outside the bedroom, I love cooking (and learning about it!), going to the gym, and volunteering with adults with disabilities.

What I’m Looking For: I’m seeking a Christian woman (18 ) who values faith, honesty, and communication in a relationship. You don’t need to be an experienced dom or sub—just open to exploring what works for both of us. I’m also open to building a connection with someone older, as I admire the wisdom and life experience that often comes with it.

I believe relationships are about balance, and I’d love to find someone who appreciates both my nurturing and assertive sides. If this resonates with you, feel free to reach out. Let’s chat about what matters to us, what excites us, and what we hope to build together.

Pictures are on my profile if you’d like to see the face behind these words. I look forward to hearing from you!