Trying this again. Am I too picky?
I wish conventional dating worked for me but unfortunately, itās hard to find someone when youāre a depraved submissive who needs romance and affection too. Making a connection isnāt the problem, itās finding someone who can be a partner AND has kinks to compliment mine, that proves difficult.
I donāt just give my submission away. Iām looking for someone that I can live a life with eventually. Itās totally understandable to start online but the goal is to ultimately have something real and tangible in person. Itās really special to feel understood and adored just as much as it feels to be owned and used. I would love a dynamic where things can be sweet one moment and rough the next.
Personality is far more important than anything else but Iād be lying if I said I didnāt have a type. I love the whole tall, dark, and handsome thing and if you have tattoos and a beardā¦ Iām even more fucked. I feel like that description is typical though and even if I find someone very attractive, itās the bare minimum of what will keep me interested.
As for me, Iām 5ā3 and even though I donāt take up a lot of space, I have curves. Iām the type that canāt wear anything modest enough to hide my boobs but still try anyway. I do like how I look but I want someone to be attracted to who I am as a partner and a submissive.
I feel like this is too wordy?? Iām just trying to convey as much as possible what Iām looking for. I have kinks but prefer to discuss them privately. I also can pick up real quick when someone pastes a message theyāve sent a ton of other women. Messages that already call me a pet name, are vulgar, or āheyā I ignore immediately. I just want to find my person.
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